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I was one that had to demand a biopsy.
dreamer
Tuesday, March 10, 2009 at 03:33 PMre: I was one that had to demand a biopsy.
Robin Gray RN
Tuesday, March 10, 2009 at 03:50 PMCongratulations on survivoring for 16 years and good for being your own best advocate and seeking out the treatment you needed or you might not be here today to tell of it. I am glad you found your other breast cancer tumor through you pushing for the mastectomy. Best wishes for many more years of surviving.
re: I was one that had to demand a biopsy.
Barbara Rydesky
Thursday, March 19, 2009 at 02:28 PMI, too, had no family hx of breast cancer. My gynecologist sent me to a surgeon after
my mammogram came back with a suspicious area. There was no lump, nothing to palpate. The surgeon told me "not to worry about it....it was NOTHING." I told him I wanted an MRI to be sure. He told me "it wasn't necessary...but I insisted! Thank God I did. I had breast cancer. I had a double mastectomy in December of 07. I am a one year survivor. I know if I waited another year, it would have been in my lymph.
It was an aggressive, invasive type of cancer. My thoughts: Don't take "No" for an answer. Be proactive! Research and read!! If you don't do it, who will???
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Robin Gray RN
Thursday, March 19, 2009 at 07:46 PMre: re: I was one that had to demand a biopsy.
angela
Monday, April 06, 2009 at 11:43 AMI too had been told "dont worry" now - - it's just something we see on the mammo we will watch - another mammo in 6 months. I should have made the decision not to wait and go ahead with a biopsy. well 6 months later - i now have breast cancer tumor - small in size but the breast MRI showed another tumor closer to center of my chest. I immediately decided on double mastectomy with implants. I am scared to death of the pain i will be having and worried about this moving to another area. The doctor won't know, he says, if there is anything in the lobes yet til after the surgery? I'm very nervous - i need to be able to talk with someone who has had this surgery so that i can better prepare for the results and post care. I'm a wreck - - on top of that - - - quitting smoking is another challenge. I'm trying to stay positive about the surgery - but how could it be that easy? Remove the breast and that's it? I can't believe it can only be this. I'm scared this cancer may be elsewhere as it took years to find ......
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Over Diagnosis of Breast Cancer
Arizona95
Tuesday, March 10, 2009 at 10:10 PMUnfortunately, not only can breast cancer be misdiagnosed as something else- it can also be overdiagnosed in which case the lesion is a benign process. I fell victim of the latter case, not learning until I had already had a mastectomy- that I did not in fact have cancer. I was very depressed, had a poor reconstruction with many complications and infections. The end result was a disaster, and I was left not only physically deformed, with lymphadema, abdominal trauma and hernias from a failed TRAM flap reconstruction- I am only able to work part time due to all the chronic pain
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Martha
Wednesday, March 11, 2009 at 02:11 PMre: Over Diagnosis of Breast Cancer
robin gray rn
Thursday, March 12, 2009 at 03:54 PMre: Over Diagnosis of Breast Cancer
angela
Monday, April 06, 2009 at 11:46 AMHow did you find out that you did not have the cancer? How could the biopsy be wrong along with an MRI or other scanning? I'm concerned - i'm scheduled for a double mastectomy in 10 days and i'm nervous. None of the factors do i have for getting breast cancer - except that i have not had any children and i'm 44 years old. Am i possibly having a surgery i don't need? Can you contact me so we can talk more...
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Confused
Wednesday, March 18, 2009 at 10:26 PMI am late 30's and less than past year I have had several mams, ultrasounds and a biopsy on my left breast. One path report states "fibroademoma". I had no pain but returned months later and when I requested my latest med record the doctor wrote "benign mastodynia". Dr. told me to return in 1 year and that pain is "good" and "common". I had to remind the doctor she booked me prior for a 6 month follow-up and questioned if this was now necessary given she just told me one year. The doctor quickly opened my file and corrected herself stating "Oh yes, come back in 6 months because we cannot rule out cancer". I had no pain prior with all my other tests but do not know what questions to ask. The pain is always in the diagnosed lump. Besides I waited over 2+ hours for my appointment and she took 2+ minutes with me, my body just doesn't feel "right". How easy is it to get an unbiased second opinion? Are fibroademoma and mastodynia the same thing?
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Robin Gray RN
Thursday, March 19, 2009 at 08:03 PMI definately would get a second opinion from someone who is going to spend more than two minutes time with you. Remember they can name your lump anything they want, fibroadenoma, fibrocystic, or any other benign name. However, unless they have done the appropriate tests to rule out cancer, the name assigned may be meaningless.Please take the time to get the bottom of this as soon as you can. My book gives you a guide to help get correct diagnosis and lists common diagnostic errors doctors make in breast assessment. Best of luck to you and please be proactive!
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Cindy
Friday, March 20, 2009 at 12:10 AMI would like to add my two cents for what it is worth. My cousin Robin was told she didn't have cancer. She kept going back in and telling them she didn't fell well. They told her you are a drunk. Go home. Nothing is wrong with you. She kept going back in saying I know something is wrong. My cousin was a beautiful, young mother, she died at 36 years old. She had 4 children. They mixed her chart up with another patient. I have had two cousins die from breast cancer. I am a two time breast cancer survivor. I am 54 years old. My other cousin died at 49 years old. She got breast cancer the first time at 35 years old. She died because she got a lump in her shoulder and the idiot doctors didn't realize it was cancer when she went in. Then it spread thru her whole body just like it did to our other cousin. My other cousin and I seem to be luckier I had to beg my cousin to have a mastectomy. She thought she had a perfectly good breast even though her sister is one of the cousins that died. I had to beg her doctor to take it off. He thought she could have a lumpectomy. My 28 year old daughter keeps getting lumps the doctors some of them keep saying she is too young for a mamogram. Hey our family is dying. My mom is a breast cancer survivor. Her great grandmother on her dads side died of breast cancer. Ovarian cancer. Lung Cancer and Throat Cancer also run in our family. Only one of those family members is still alive but she continues to smoke and drink. One cousin is still alive I must admit that just had something done but I haven't heard what yet. She just had something taken out just in case call her crazy. Another just had a breast biopsy and waiting to hear. I have great doctors but I must admit I also have great insurance. But also doctors who really care. They have most of them been with me for a long time. So I would rather have my breasts taken off than be dead. My daughter has decided to have hers taken off if there is any chance at all of cancer. Her father and her boyfriend think she is crazy but better crazy than dead like Robin. Robin had already had one breast removed from cancer what would it have taken for them to take another look than to call her crazy. Lauren has another lump and she is going to go have another look taken as soon as she gets this new insurance. Call her crazy. But she has two small children that need there mother. My other cousin left behind several children also. I miss my cousins.
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Confused
Friday, March 20, 2009 at 11:53 AMThank you Cindy for sharing your story. I am sorry for the loss of your cousin, Robin, and the toll that cancer has taken on you and your family. It is very frustrating to hear so many stories of doctors reacting as if they are treating a dog at a vet that is having his nails clipped. I too have a history of cancer in my family and the oncologist knows this. My mother-in-law (and friend) died one year ago next month and I can relate first hand the devastation that cancer takes on a person and family. As I mentioned in my reply to Robin Gray, it is very disheartening for myself to have to weigh out insurance versus my health. Currently if I choose to have the lump removed, it is considered elective surgery which my insurance won't cover ANY. I am looking into other doctors and hope they will be more open minded and actually listen to concerns and my medical history as well as take a modern pro-active approach for prevention. Thank you Cindy and Robin Gray for your response. It is good to speak with others who understand.
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Confused
Friday, March 20, 2009 at 11:44 AMThank you for both of your replies. All good advice. I will be getting your book. Unfortunately poor insurance makes it very hard to be proactive. It's like you have to weigh out losing your house and everything little think you own versus your life. It's a sad place we live in when that is the case.
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Confused
Monday, March 30, 2009 at 02:01 PMre: Untitled Comment
Confused
Thursday, April 02, 2009 at 04:11 PMWell I went for my second opinion today which was also supposed to be my 6 month follow-up for my mam & ultrasound. When I arrived, they told me that the mam was canceled. The new doctor decided after reading my medical records from the last doctor that it wasn't necessary. Although the nurse told me in private quarters even she didn't understand the results...and assured me I was at the right place to get answers...the new doctor told me he WOULD NOT do the tests for me and I was welcome to come back in a year. Now what? He never even looked at my films which I had with me because "he is definitely going to want to see those". Is this like some cult where doctor's don't want to question each other? It was for a second opinion and I was due for my next check-up anyhow. The doctor was basically an a-hole who was going to bill for an office visit just to tell me he canceled my tests and didn't want to be bothered. It is soooo frustrating. I just assume die of cancer before I go see another doctor. What's the point. Removing my lump is out of the question. I don't get it. The office told me they remove them all the time even if it is to help with the anxiety of the patient that has it. What a joke.
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Robin..you are an inspiration!
Leeza
Sunday, March 22, 2009 at 11:31 PM
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Because I did not have family history, my mamography was negative and no lump, nobody except my G.P.would listen that I had some pain and I knew there was something wrong.
3 Months later I had my biopsy, it was breast cancer, I was sent to an oncologist that recommended no chemo, or mastectomy.
I told my doctor that I wanted chemo and a mastectomy, my wish was granted and I was found that I had another larger tumor , invasive and diferent from the one during the biopsy.
I am 16 years from that day.