Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Just Diagnosed with Cancer? Chat with Experts

Life Before Breast Cancer and Life After Breast Cancer

Written by

PJ Hamel

PJ Hamel

Tue, February 19, 2008

Additional Posts

View all Posts »

Six years ago this week, I lay half-naked on a cold table, one arm crooked uncomfortably over my head, counting the ceiling tiles and listening to bad country music as I received one final dose of radiation. Late February marked the end of a journey that had begun in May of the previous year–Ma...
2/20/08 8:28am

PJ,

What a truly inspiring post.  While you never sugar-coat the truth about what it's been like for you -- and for other women -- to go through the unpleasantness of breast cancer -- you always manage to show all the good that can come of it:  feeling grateful for every day, including the aggravating ones, and for helping other people get through their difficult situations. Those are some lucky women who live close enough to make it to your Friday afternoon support group.

2/20/08 7:17pm

Congratulations on the sixth anniversary of finishing treatment.  Each new year is a victory.  Thank you for using your experience to help so many people.

 

Phyllis Johnson 

Anonymous
jean
2/21/08 3:39am
Thanks, PJ, for putting all our knotted feelings into words and turning our experience into something that gives more than it takes. 
Anonymous
Kim Matthews
2/22/08 9:33am
I am a 27 year old mother of 3 who is waiting for biopsy results, and though I have not gotten a diagnosis yet, your article helped me realize if we get bad news, it will not be the end of the world.  So thank you.
2/22/08 10:27am

That's right, Kim. News you don't want to hear... but you (and your family) would be able to deal with it, trust me. Cancer isn't the death sentence it was even 10 years ago - research and treatment have come SO far. But I feel for you, and I'm sending you good karma - I well remember those hours spent in between — you don't have cancer, but you don't NOT have it either. Yet. Whichever way the shoe drops, Kim, you'll move forward and deal. Take care-  PJH

Anonymous
Kim Matthews
2/22/08 11:52am
Thank you so much.
2/25/08 11:11pm

Dear PJ,

 

You are Wonder Woman -- period. Congrats on anniversary #6!

 

Most sincerely,

Maria

5/28/08 1:34pm

Maybe it is the magic of 6 years? I know when I was first told I had invasive breast cancer and all the treatments ahead of me, I couldn't look past the next appointment nevermind the next year. But time moves on and thankfully with -out  more cancer  so do I. I have taken my experience to start my own business and I have a blog I call Entrepreneurial Menopause Freedom. 6 years ago I never would have thought it!

5/28/08 3:55pm

You go, girl! Now that's really changing your life - starting your own business... Congrats, and let's keep on LIVING. - PJH