Ten Reasons Cancer Stinks, and Ten Reasons it Doesn't

5) When you have cancer, you really do appreciate everyday things more. Living in the shadow of death–even when it’s the barest hint of a shadow–makes every sunrise twice as nice.

6) You no longer have to worry about getting cancer. You’ve got it! Check it off the mental worry list.

7) Cancer opens your life up to a whole new circle of friends. The woman having chemo in the chair beside you, caregivers you become close to, someone at work you’ve never really noticed who looks you in the eye and says “Hey, I’ve been there. Let’s talk.”

8) Cancer can develop your spiritual side. Whether within a formal religious framework, or meditating on the yoga mat, or getting a Reiki treatment, you may find yourself suddenly much more open. Your soul grows stronger, in order to balance the fight going on in your body.

9) As you learn to receive care gracefully, you become a better caregiver yourself. Cancer shows you the balance between giving and receiving.

10) People are nice, and the world really is a good place. Your cancer brings out the best in your family, friends, and caregivers. And if it doesn’t–give them a break, and move on. We’re all human.