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Great post P.J. I really like the fact that you stressed that we should not rush into a decision. Take time to consider all options. I didn't read about that until after. I don't think I would have made different decisions, and maybe the quickness of the process was a blessing in disguise, but if I was Queen of the Universe I would want every woman who found herself handed a breast cancer diagnosis to take her time.
AND I'd like the doctor, after s/he says, "You have cancer," to step out of the room for 10 minutes to give you a small chance to internalize the fact before the lava flow of doctor names, appointments, procedures, and tests comes gushing forth - none of which you can hear because you're in shock! that would be my "Queen of the Universe" decree... 
PJH
PJ - Your comments have been playing over in my head all week, so I ended up writing my own blog post about giving cancer patients more time. I hope someone, somewhere is hearing all of this chatter.
all the best
Jo-Ann
Brief history: 2002--diagnosed with DCIS--lumpectomy & radiation; recent mammogram necessitated a surgical biopsy--DCIS is back after 7 1/2 years. Now I will have a mastectomy & am leaning toward reconstruction at the same time so I can get it all done at once. This post spoke to many of my questions, & I will refer to it in the days ahead as I prepare for the next step. Thanks so much for sharing your experience & knowledge on breast cancer!
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What a wonderful summary of the decisions involved in breast cancer treatment! It's so easy to second guess oneself. What helped me in making these decisions was to list the facts about the risks and benefits on a sheet of paper and then go with my gut. Once the decision is made, it's important not to look back.
Indeed, Phyllis, plebeian though it seems in such a scary circumstace, it does indeed help to make a "laundry list" of pros and cons, just so you can feel completely organized. And I second your advice wholeheartedly - make your decision, and no looking back - never second-guess yourself. Thanks for your input - PJH