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Tuesday, October, 07, 2008

Learning to Appreciate Life

by  Natalia Hernandez
Monday, January 28, 2008
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A 27-year-old Inspiration

I just turned 27 and I got diagnosed with a stage four breast cancer...

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Though I am only in my 20's, I try not to watch the news much anymore, because it can seem like a horror movie come to life. Especially recently. I read about a man who threw his almost newborn baby over a bridge onto a highway. The baby died on impact, but also got ran over by a car. I a...

 

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  1. You're AWESOME, Natalia!!!
    Cancer Vixen
    Monday, January 28, 2008 at 08:01 PM

    So courageous, so honest.

    You inspire ME.

     

    Thank you thank you thank you for reminding me that we should really be grateful for every moment and keep living and keep loving.

     

    I also believe you'll be around for a long, long time.

    And did you know I'm going to do your portrait?

    It's MY pleasure.

     

    Much love,

     

    Marisa 


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    re: You're AWESOME, Natalia!!!
    Natalia Hernandez
    Friday, February 01, 2008 at 12:27 AM

    Oh my gosh Marisa I can't believe that your going to do my portrait!!!  I have read about you, you are so awesome and then I hear that you are taking time out to do my portrait....thats too cool!  It still hasn't sank in.  Thank you for reading it means so much to me. Wow

     

    Loving the cancer vixen,

    Natalia


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    re: re: You're AWESOME, Natalia!!!
    Cancer Vixen
    Friday, February 01, 2008 at 01:03 PM

    And we're all loving YOU!

    XO 


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  2. cancer angels
    deb gregory
    Monday, January 28, 2008 at 10:04 PM

     Dearest Natalia,

    Here's to the angels like you fighting cancer. You are in my prayers, and now in my heart. Keep that beautiful attitude, and your blanket of comfort God has provided you. It's not how long we live-but how we live that matters. 

     

    God bless you and keep you


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    re: cancer angels
    Natalia Hernandez
    Friday, February 01, 2008 at 12:30 AM

    You are so right, its not how long you live its how you live.  I do feel like sometimes especially through the hard times that im wrapped in a blanket, gods blanket...thats really nice.  Thank you for your kind words.

     

    HeartNatalia


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    re: re: cancer angels
    debrah gregory
    Sunday, February 03, 2008 at 07:51 PM

     Dear Natalia,

    Received your comment today. Was glad to hear from you.

    Have to confess-- I know of the blanket because I too have one.

    I'm fighting breast cancer also. Was diagnosed in Aug. 07.

    I was just browsing the Internet and came across your story. I'am a mother of four,two stepchildren and just had a new grandbaby two months ago. It was my number 20!!!!

    Reading about you touched me so much I had to sit and cry for the way I was feeling sorry for myself  and the pain of  that day.

    God has given me many years and many blessings . But he shook me up when I came across your story.

    So you truly are and Angel, Thank you for helping me get back on track. Keep your blanket tight lil one!!!

     

    deb

     

     

     


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    re: re: re: cancer angels
    Natalia Hernandez
    Tuesday, February 05, 2008 at 02:42 PM

    Wow that was really sweet of you, im glad you read my story.  Im also glad that you have had luck in your life, thats really nice and it really makes you have more things to be thankful for.  I wish you the best of luck with your life and your big family.  It does sound like you have a blanket and thats a wonderful thing.

     

    Heart

    Natalia


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  3. Waking up to you
    jean
    Monday, January 28, 2008 at 10:06 PM

    Natalia, you are so young and already so wise. How many of us just sleep through life? Thank you for giving all of us this much needed wake up call. Today, you inspired me to pick up my dusty old book of poems and read Wordsworth again: "Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, of glory in the flower; We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind."

     


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    re: Waking up to you
    Natalia Hernandez
    Friday, February 01, 2008 at 12:32 AM

    That was really deep, thank you for sharing.  Everyone should do all the things they love to do because your life will be as happy as you make it.  Im glad I was able to help you.

     

    Heart

    Natalia


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    Jennifer
    Tuesday, January 29, 2008 at 05:07 PM
    I think you'd make a fantastic adoptive mother!!
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    Natalia Hernandez
    Friday, February 01, 2008 at 12:34 AM

    Thank you, I have been thinking about adoption...even though they told me that they would never give someone like me with my condition a child.  Its always worth a try though?? 

     

    Heart

    Natalia


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  5. Things can change...
    Pat McRee
    Tuesday, January 29, 2008 at 05:10 PM

    Dear Natalia,

    Just yesterday I had a visit from my friend, Luane and her 6 year old daughter Rachel. Ten years ago Luane was in treatment for metastatic breast cancer and had to accept that she would not bear children. Finally, after treatment ended, she and her husband decided to adopt, but her oncologist would not write a letter in support of this, saying that, even though she had no evidence of disease, he didn't believe she would live to raise a child. But SHE believed and she has still had no evidence of disease for almost a decade. And she is Rachel's very proud adoptive mother.

    You can do it too, Natalia. I'll be praying for you.

    Love from a 14 year survivor (twice),

    Pat

      


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    re: Things can change...
    Natalia Hernandez
    Friday, February 01, 2008 at 12:37 AM

    Hey Pat, you know what you said has really made me think.  It has given me so much hope.  You never know what my future has in store.  I may be cancer free in a few years and I can still be in time to have kids or maybe able to adopt, even though they said I coudn't.  You have given me new hopes though and I do wish for that day that they say im cancer free...that would be awesome.  Thank you for sharing that story with me, it really has me thinking.

     

    Heart

    Natalia


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