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Writing Your Way Through Cancer, Part II: Sharing Your News

Phyllis Johnson
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Inflammatory Breast Cancer Survivor

Phyllis Johnson grew up in Silver Spring, Maryland. Parents of...

Phyllis Johnson

Monday, March 23, 2009
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Telling people that I had cancer was one of the hardest parts of the experience.  We had moved a thousand miles away from family and friends just a few months before my diagnosis, so most of time I shared the news in a phone call.   The calls were difficult.  Most people hadn't even ...
  1. Writing your way through cancer
    Jan
    Monday, March 23, 2009 at 11:31 AM

    Phyllis, I identify completely with what you are saying.  Each time I had cancer my husband would send out group emails to update folks who cared, while I journaled privately.  Listservs were around when I was first diagnosed, and were especially helpful as I dealt with lymphedema, a much rarer condition.  Now that caringbridge, blogs, twitter, and facebook are so common, I find myself using them more and more to share news, both public and private.  Thanks for linking us to the article about using blogs as part of the healing process.  XO Jan

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    re: Writing your way through cancer
    Phyllis Johnson
    Monday, March 23, 2009 at 06:44 PM

    Thanks for sharing your experience.  My husband did some of the emailing too, especially immediately after my surgery.  Our far flung support system was crucial to our well-being during that traumatic time.  I'm glad you're still writing.

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  2. inflammatory breast cancer
    dee
    Saturday, March 28, 2009 at 12:14 AM

    hello phyllis, i was reading your message regarding ibc, however i was hoping to get some medical opinions from you regarding your experience.  can you tell me did you get a biopsy first, then chemo to shrink the tumor, then removl of the tumor, or did you get the mass removed with the biopsy.  i read from a mayo clinic dr. that the ibc treatment plan is done a little different than regular breast cancer.  can you please let me know because my friend is scheduled to get the mass removed first. please email me at   riseupcincy2@yahoo.com    if anyone else knows please let me know

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    re: inflammatory breast cancer
    Phyllis Johnson
    Saturday, March 28, 2009 at 07:02 AM

    The standard protocol for treating inflammatory breast cancer (IBC) is to do chemo before mastectomy.  The diagnosis for IBC is based on finding cancer in the lymph vessels in the skin of the breast with a biopsy.  Of course, there will probably be more cancer in other places in the breast, but it's those cancer cells that have already moved into the lymphatic system where they can have a free ride to vital organs that worry the doctors.  To kill any of those escaping cancer cells, chemo is given first.  The death rates for IBC didn't go down until the chemo, surgery, radiation treatmen was done in that order.  When I was diagnosed, usually four treatments of chemo were given before surgery and then four more after surgery, followed by radiation.  Now I notice more and more patients get all the chemo first.

    Of course, there are some variations in treatment depending on special circumstances in a patient's situation.  However, if your friend has a definite IBC diagnosis and the doctor is recommending surgery before chemo, I'd recommend that she get a second opinion and find out if there is some unusual feature of her case that would warrant not following the standard protocol. 

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    re: re: inflammatory breast cancer
    imina
    Sunday, March 29, 2009 at 03:13 AM

    HELLO PHYLLIS, THANKS FOR RESPONDING.  IS MASTETOMY THE SAME AS REMOVING THE MASS/LUMP IN THE BREAST.  MY FRIEND DOCTOR WANTS TO REMOVAL THE MASS/LUMP WITH BIOPSY.  IS THAT THE NORMAL PROCEDURE WHEN YOUR'RE DEALING WITH IBC.  HOW WOULD SHOULD KNOW FOR SURE THAT SHE HAS IBC.  SHE WAS GIVEN A RADIOLOGIST REPORT, THEY DID A PHYSICAL EXAM, MAMMOGRAM, AND ULTRA SOUND AND IT STATES PRIMARY CONSIDERATION IS EXTENSIVE IMFLAMMATORY PROCESS WITH INFLAMMATORY BREAST CARCINOMA.  WILL THE BIOPSY ITSELF CONFIRM THE IBC.  ALSO WHAT TYPE OF DOCTOR TREATED YOU.  SHE IS BEING SEEN BY A GENERAL/VASCULAR SURGERON.  SHE DOESN'T HAVE A BREAST SPECIALIST YET.  SHOULD SHE SEE A BREAST SPECIALIST BEFORE SHE LET THIS SURGERON REMOVE THE LUMP.  HER ONLY VISIT FROM A DOCTOR WAS FROM THE EMERGENCY ROOM DOCTOR, THANKS FOR YOUR TIME AND RESPONSE, IMINA

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    re: re: re: inflammatory breast cancer
    Phyllis Johnson
    Sunday, March 29, 2009 at 07:56 AM

    Removing a mass is not the same thing as a mastectomy.  A mastectomy is removing the entire breast.  Removing a mass could be removing any amount of tissue.  In this case, "mass" isn't a very precise term.  The term "primary consideration" in the radiology report means that the most likely cause of what they are seeing in the films is inflammatory breast cancer, but it will take a biopsy to say for sure what is causing your friend's problem.

    Because doctors know that IBC is very dangerous, they are not likely to proceed with treatment without doing a little research into the latest studies.  The fact that the radiologist raised the possibility of "inflammatory breast carcinoma" suggests to me that your friend is fine with going ahead with her current doctors.  Obviously these doctors know what IBC is and what it often looks like on a mammogram or ultrasound.  

    The information you read at the Mayo website is correct that the entire breast shouldn't be removed before chemo, so she needs to clarify with the surgeon exactly what will be removed with the biopsy.

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  3. Unexpected connections
    PJ Hamel
    Sunday, March 29, 2009 at 09:30 PM

    Your story of the young man and his choice to speak from the heart struck me, Phyllis. I experienced something similar many times, thoughout the cancer experience: moments of real connection with people I never would have expected it from. It's as if cancer breaks down artificial barriers, and we can suddenly speak or write to one another heart to heart. Thanks for reminding me of that - PJH

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