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I'm Doug Haberstroh, and this is the story of my wife Keri. Keri was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2005 at the age of 25. Well, now you're in for a real treat in this post. Keri starts off with a reaction to how the chemo treatments for metastatic breast cancer have been progressing and the pain that still just won't leave. The pain has become so fierce at times that she is not able to move or sit in one place for any length of time; I cannot even explain how painful and annoying that was for her. To end this SharePost I finally send an e-mail to our family and my friends, a much overdue e-mail. Subject: Quick Note Sent: Monday, July 31, 2006 2:56 PM Hi Everyone, I only have time for a quick note. My fourth treatment is this coming Wednesday on August 2nd. The pain is still hanging around and we are trying all kinds of things to find a good medicine to help mask the pain. The doctor is a little concerned that the pain is sti...
We know you really don't want to be here, reading about breast cancer recurrence or metastasis. If you've had breast cancer, the possibility of recurrence and spread (metastasis) of breast cancer stays with you. You may be here because you fear this possibility. Or you may be here because it's already happened.
Keep in mind that a recurrence of breast cancer or metastatic (advanced) disease is NOT hopeless. Many women continue to live long, productive lives with breast cancer in this stage. It is also likely that your experience with treatment this time will be somewhat different from last time. There are so many options for your care and so many ways to chart your progress as you move through diagnosis, treatment, and beyond.
Because there are so many options, this is a long section. You may want to read just a few pages at a time. You might find it very difficult to concentrate, think straight, and remember what you've read. That's natural when you're anxious, uncertain, overwhelmed...
things I have learned as a parent with cancer:
Keeping the lines of
communication open, in a way that is appropriate for the age and
personality of your child, is extremely important
Kids are extremely
it comes to talking to kids about cancer, I do not believe that there is a ‘one
size fits all’ approach. I think each of us needs to figure out what will best
meet the needs of each individual child (and my own approach with each of my
two children has of necessity been quite different).
do know some mothers go to great lengths to protect their children from the
knowledge that they have cancer. This is not an approach that could ever work
for me, as I am convinced that children notice much more than we think they do
and that the fears which remain unaddressed are the hardest to
once spoke to a woman who had worn a wig at all times during treatment so as
not to frighten her children. And she never talked ...
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