That sounds right, Natalie - I'd go for it. Good luck, and stay in touch here - we can help. PJH

Since yournodes were clear, it's very unlikely the cancer has spread outside your breast. But they like to do chemo anyway, just to make absolutely sure. Different hospitals approach the pre-treatment routine different ways; I did, in fact, have a positive lymph node, but they didn't bother to give me a full body scan, or anything else; just chemo. So - wait and see. Yes,your oncologist will discuss this all with you fully. it really helps ify you have someone to come with you and take notes; the amount of informaiton loaded onto you can get pretty daunting during those first few visits... Natalie, you're going to find out that you're stronger than you ever imagined. Trust me; you'll get through this! Millions of us have. We're with you. PJH

Again, Natalie, triple negative breast cancer demands a "one-shot" approach - best to knock it out right at the beginning, because there's no preventing a recurrence later on via hormone therapy. Why prejudge yourself? It all sounds awful now, it's true; but I'm betting you'd find you're stronger than you think - much stronger.

That said, of course it's your right to refuse any and all treatment. Would the full course have more chance of preventing a recurrence? I'd guess so, otherwise they wouldn't recommend it. But if you're someone who feels comfortable taking a chance on less treatment, and not get down on yourself if you have a recurrence later - then simply tell the doctor how much and what kind of treatment you'd like.

If it were me (and it was me, 8 years ago), I'd go for the most aggressive treatment possible, for the best possible result. But that's what was good for ME. It's your body, and you need to do what's best for YOU. Good luck - PJH