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Q: My husband is on Tricor. He is an alcoholic. Is this a deadly mixture?

My husband failed to tell his dr that he is an alcoholic. I have noticed lately that when he has even 1 beer his behavior changes and it seems like he has had a lot more. He snores at night and even appears to stop breathing at times. What is going on. My husband is so secretive with his dr. He won;t tell him what I see. He thinks I am making it up. What do I do as his wife?

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4/ 6/09 7:52pm

Hi Unateach,

 

It is best to avoid drinking alcohol while taking Tricor.  Alcohol raises triglyceride levels which decreases the effectiveness of the medication and may also damage his liver while he's taking TriCor. 

 

Your husband's alcohol intake is definitely something his doctor should be aware of.  His breathing issues at night may be an indicator of sleep apnea or another condition and should also be discussed with his physician. 

 

I'm sorry I'm not able to offer suggestions on how to handle the situation in regards to your husband not being straight forward with his physician.

 

All the best,

Lisa Nelson RD

Be Heart Healthy and Lose Weight

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7/10/09 9:52am

Dear Unateach:   Yes, I am sure your husband 'failed to tell' his doctor that he is an alcoholic:  the lying and avoidance of truth are symptomatic of the disease.  I am a therapist, so am not a 'medical professional', but have a couple of thoughts.  Join a really good Al-Anon group, where support for spouses is tremendously good and issues just such as the one you raised are discussed every week.  You will learn how other are effectively able to take care of themselves while a spouse is abusing substances, in denial, lying, and doing self-harming behaviors that affect the entire family.

      Possibly because I have encountered this in my own family (parents and former spouse), at this point in life (60 yrs), I would additionally either make an appointment with your husband's doctor to share the symptoms of concern and the fact that he is an alcoholic.  Don't expect for the doctor to 'share' any info. with you, as the HIPPA laws won't allow that, but the doctor can just sit there while you talk about facts. 

       Another way to present a factual "account" of your husband's medical condition and symptoms, is to write a summary of your concerns and mail or fax to the doctor.  You can add in your summary that you "don't expect a response back from the doctor" but felt the info.about your husband was vital for the doctor to know in treating him.

      I am taking this stance, as a protection for you.   If your husband dies from the combination of his medication and his drinking, it will be helpful for you to avoid additional pain by feeling that you did all you could to enlighten the doctor.  I want you to NOT end up feeling, "If I had only told his doctor, he might not have died!"

      By the way, as the alcoholic advances in his disease, it takes less and less booze to get him drunk...The liver becomes less able to handle it, and intoxication sets in more rapidly -  My heart goes out to you, and I pray you will find an Al-Anon Group ASAP -   Blessings from a counselor in Texas

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