This is actually an 'Hello everyone'. So far, as far as I know, I'm healthy. My sister in law, who is 54 years old, told me about her diagnosis of fibromyalgia. I may be a busy body, but if I am, I am a caring busy body. The symptoms she described horrified me, I'd never guessed. She told me about the sleep loss, a hug that left her in agony for hours, legs and arms taking on a life of their own. She also told me about her inability to remember things and forgetting words she would have normally have used in a sentence. She went on to tell me about a caring rheumatologist that examined her and told her that she had Fibromyalgia. I could hardly believe it when she said that she was happy with the diagnosis, but she was. In her mind she was happy enough that the condition had a name, 'You can fight something that has a name' is exactly what she said to me at the time.
It was what happened after the diagnosis that particularly offended her, and me when I learned of it. Why on earth does the medical profession 'experiment' with people. We're in the UK, which always used to be a model around the world, and we're really dissolutioned by Doctors that prescribe drugs commonly used in epilepsy. She refused to take them because she was scared. Why on earth do they do that, and by the way, tell you its 'all trial and error'. People pay for the error bit!
Sorry that this was quite a long 'hello' but if someone out there wants to defend this situation, I'd love to hear the defence. I'm sure that ther are plenty of 'lab rats' out there that would also like to ask the defense a few questions.


Top 10 Things NOT to Say to a Fibromyalgia Patient
7 Conditions Often Mistaken for Fibromyalgia
7 Surprising Causes of Back Pain
8 Conditions That Often Accompany Back Pain
Hi Kate,
Welcome to ChronicPainConnection! I commend you for your concern for your sister-in-law. Would that everyone with fibromyalgia had such caring relatives and friends.
I can relate to your sister-in-law's reaction to finding out she had FM. I felt the same way. Although we're not happy about having the illness, it is such a relief to find out it at least has a name. It's scary to feel so bad and not know what is wrong with you – especially if doctors have told you it's just stress or it's all in your head. I agree with her statement completely – You can fight something that has a name.
I can understand why you were both shocked and upset when her doctor wanted to prescribe a drug used for epilepsy. However, there is actually a good deal of science behind that recommendation. It's not unusual for medications to be used for some very diverse conditions.
I think some of the confusion comes from the categories drugs seemed to be classified in. For example, anticonvulsants (which are prescribed for epilepsy) can also be very effective in relieving nerve pain. They prevent seizures by calming the nerves down, but that same calming effect also helps reduce nerve-generated pain impulses. The first medication that was approved here in the U.S. for treating FM was Lyrica (pregabalin), which is an anticonvulsant. Neurontin (gabapentin), another anticonvulsant, has also been shown in clinical trials to be effective for FM pain.
Another classification of medication her doctor may suggest is antidepressants. If he does, he's not suggesting that she is depressed or that her pain is imaginary. Antidepressants can be very effective pain relievers. They work by preventing the breakdown of serotonin in the brain. Without enough serotonin, pain signals can be amplified, which is one of the problems with FM. Antidepressants can also improve sleep, which is usually a big problem for FM patients. The other two medications approved for FM treatment in the U.S. are both antidepressants – Cymbalta (duloxetine) and Savella (milnacipran).
When your sister-in-law's doctor told her treating FM was a matter of trial and error, he didn't mean that he was using her as a lab experiment. The fact is, there is no single treatment that has been found to help every FM patient. Most medications seem to help about 30% - 40% of people with FM. So, unfortunately, for each individual patient, it is generally a matter of trying different medications until they find the one that helps them. I wish there were a better way, but I'm afraid that's where we are right now.
In addition to the specific medications I mentioned, there are a number of other medications that may be used "unofficially" or off-label to treat FM as well. Personally, I've been using tramadol for a number of years and it helps me quite a bit. Here is a link to an article about different meds used for FM that may be helpful: Medications Prescribed for Fibromyalgia
I hope this helps you and your sister-in-law feel a little better about her doctor and his recommendations. I would just encourage her to learn everything she can about fibromyalgia from reputable sources. Our best weapons against this illness are education and knowledge. We have a lot of information here to get her started: Fibromyalgia
And I hope both of you will feel free to ask quesitons any time. We'll do our best to help you. – Karen
Hi Karen
and thank you for taking the time to put together such a helpful post. There were 2 replies and I'm afraid I answered them in reverse order.
I do know about Tramadol and also Nefopam (?). I've been looking at lots of stuff on the internet to see if there's any other approach than what appears to be fairly heavy duty drugs. I asked Angelaamy, my second poster, if she had found anything that she had done for herself that's helped. Have you?
Kate or Kath (people use both)
<!-- [if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal</w:View> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:PunctuationKerning /> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas /> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables /> <w:SnapToGridInCell /> <w:WrapTextWithPunct /> <w:UseAsianBreakRules /> <w:DontGrowAutofit /> </w:Compatibility> <w:BrowserLevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!-- [if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="156"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--> <!-- [if gte mso 10]> <mce:style><! /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ansi-language:#0400; mso-fareast-language:#0400; mso-bidi-language:#0400;} --> <!--[endif]-->