Wednesday, February 15, 2012

i'm about ready to give up!

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amanda

amanda

Thu, February 05, 2009

i dont know what to do anymore. i have fought with doctors and people telling them something is wrong for over 10 years. now i'm 24 and i can't do it no more. i had surgury on my neck in octb. and for fighting so many years telling these doctors there is something wrong. now that i proved there was something wrong with my neck the pain is still there and now there is more my heart keeps speedig up then it feels like someone punched me in my heart. then i gasp for air. now after thanksgiveing i woke up my toes and feet hurt soo bad. but i thought ohh it was just because i was on my feet all day. but they still are swallen and hurt soo bad when i walk it feels like i have walked on rocks for days. then the other night. my knees got really red really hot to touch and very swallen. and on my right knee you can see my vain like really big. then. the next day. the swalling went down alittle and the red went away. BUT now i have this big big bruise on my knee WHAT is wrong with me. I hurt soo bad everyday and my doctor just seems he dont care. he dont even care about what i told him about my heart he said " ohh everybodys heart does that" Really? cause my husbands dont do that. why does mine do that. i dont understand anymore how to keep my head up and fight. what would any of you do? i just really need some advise on this. cause no matter what i do anymore noone cares. i dont want stupid medication i just want to be normal. and have a normal life. like everybodys else. but i know its not gonna happen. no matter how much i pray and cry.

2/11/09 4:24pm

I feel so badly for you – to be so young and in so much pain.  You've got to find a good doctor who will listen to you and take your symptoms seriously.  They really do exist, though I know sometimes it seems like they can be hard to find.  Are you limited as to who you can see because of insurance? 

 

You're right, a racing heart, chest pain and shortness of breath are not something everyone has.  Unfortunately, when someone is so young, and particularly when they're female, many doctors don't even consider that there could be something like a heart problem.  When my son was in college, he went to the emergency room with terrible chest pain and they never even checked his heart because of his age.  They told him he'd probably just pulled a muscle.  It turned out that he had paricarditis (fluid around the heart) and took a long time to recover because of their delays. 

 

Please find another doctor and insist that they check your heart and anything else that could be causing those symptoms, as well as your swollen feet and knee problems.  If you don't feel you're up to being that demanding, take your husband or another family member with you who will stand up for you.  And please also let us know what you find out and how you're doing.

 

I wish you the best,

Karen

9/18/09 2:29pm

Great advice, God Bless You!

3/24/09 1:56pm

MY wife was told she Had Lupus after 3 test,She then went to a Rumotolgist He ruled out Lupus but she has all the same symtoms that you you have . He calls it maticultis

auto imune problem she has been treated by him for 6 years. It goes and comes back

just like the problems you discribe. Sorry about spelling I spell by fonics I have dislexia

Also I am a cronic pain suffer for 15 years you cannot give up you will need to find the right doctor that will do what is nessary took me 4 yrs to find a good pain management clinic.I have better days but no great days . Best of luck  

9/18/09 2:38pm

I have been all over the internet and beyond searching for help because of my own chronic pain, and one thing I really don't hear anyone talk about is the Lord and Natural medicine. People are so sadly not only misdiagnosed but mislead by alot of the medical society, we believe since they went to school for so many years that they know everything and are God. Absolutely NOT GOD. Have you ever stopped to think or check on what the grades were ofthe doctor you have are? Remember in school how you could either make and A or barely get by with a D-. Well there ar Doctors out ther with these same credentials. Check up on this first. With the internet now we can find out almost anything. I have found GREAT results with Naturalpathic medicine and Holistic medicine, and believe me I have many , many problems, all you list and more. God Bless you, for being so caring for others, your advice is consoling. Take care.

9/18/09 2:27pm

Hoeney, I'm so very sorry you are in such pain, I really do understandwhat you are going thru, I also have been going thru chronic pain for over 40 yrs. {long time} been thru the wringer with the Dr.s and anyone who would listen.{listening means to be put on more drugs:{ not good} 3/09 this yr I died for six days, heartrate so low,so very cold inside out. Abolutely horrendous, but I'm here today only because My LORD wanted me to be. Right then and there I told the DR.s I wanted off these awful opiates, learned what they have done to my body and am now down to almost 1/4th of what I had been taking for 6 yrs. What I have found to work for me is, I went to my pastor and asked for help, was referred to a Holistic Physician, who DId Listen, and no DRUGS. Please DON'T GIVE UP, there is hope, keep praying find a GOOD SUPPORT SYSTEM, email me if allowed on this site. I'll pray each day for you. God Bless.

10/ 8/09 4:48am

Amanda, honey don't give up, Ive had chronic pain and on opiates for over 11 long yrs and almost lost my life in 3/09. I also got fed upwith the doctors notlistening and just giving more prescriptions & as you say not giving a fig as for me or anything. Having, Fibromyalgia, MS, Degenerative disk & joint desease, and the list goes on. Then I found the LOrd again and he steared me in the right direction & people to talk to. I had to REALLY GIVE MY LIFE UP TO HIM before anything happened. No I haven't had all the pain disappear but I have had several smallmiracles. My right ear which my Dr.s assitant busted healed up when they told me it never would  & I'd have to have a plug in all the time,I no longer have asthma, or COPD and a few other things, but my point is, I know it is hard to wait for things, and the nights are so very long, But God doesLOVE YOU and cares what happens, and so do I.Honey, I will pray so hard tonight & each night that you find the rest, peace and hope to get a good doctor and thehelp you need. Hold your head up, and there will be a doctor out there that will believe you I promise. GOD doesn't lie. Love and Blessings to you.

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