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last august my mum was diagonised with bowel cancer.I have gone through selling my family home,my own home all within a matter of one month.I don't know how I kept going,but I truly think the Hyper of everything keeps you going. it is only now that I have come back to my other home,and I am going through hell I finally have time to sit back and take everything in,i'ts not nice.Family are not the people to talk to as they have their own opinions,which are not mine.Due to being up every couple of hours to check on mum,Iam finding sleeping through very difficult. My marriage has nearly gone down the tubes,but family always comes first. I really feel for any person in this situation,and I feel for you,but only strength and tenacity will get us through.Feel what you want, cry when you want ,and stuff the rest.maybe it's not chronic it is still a way to grieve our lost loved ones and no one can take that away from us,until they go through the same.