why do i have suchsevere neck and lower back pain plus lump in lower back right above my pelvic bone

im 28 and have had severe pain for 3 years now in my neck and lower back that radiates down my right arm and leg all the right side which is weird to me because left side is fine i aslo have this painful lump in my lower back right side right above my pelvis i can move the lump i cant seem pinpoint any major injury that would have caused this ive seen back dr pysical therapist and pain management ive had injections they gave me very short term relief then pain came back with a vengence my mri showed i have disc deteriation disease and my C5 AND L3,4and 5 is severly bulged but no dr ive seen seems to be 2 concerned with my lump even though itell them its very painful it feels like wedge is in my back is there another type of doctor i should see for this lump also why is it only my right side my health history is i have severe anxiety take meds for that was diagnosed with lyme disease in 1997 was treated with antibiotics and was retested results were negative but have read that sometimes symptoms may never go away i had surgery on my right hand for carpel tunnel in 2007 and in 2002 i had to have a payton ductus arteriosis closure done (never even new i had it till i had to go to the hospital for bronchitis could any of this be related also i think there may be a lump under my right armpit its not painful besides when i wake up sometimes its weird i need help im falling apart and really have no answeres and no solutions my back dr doesnt want to do surgery because of my age and he wants to wait till my disc's repture i dont know how much more ican take any suggestions i also suffer from really bad migrains and severe fatigue what is all this im too young to be going through this thats why i feel there something severly wrong