Melissa,           i have googled my symptoms so many times, but i tried once more and got your question..  it brought a tear to my eye as it sounded like i had written it.. i am a 35yr male and i notice my aches about 8-9 yrs ago and it has slowly progressed. My last 12 months at work was a real struggle and my quality of life was turning to crap.. every spare minute went to recovery ready for my next day at work.  i have stopped work until i get some answers.. Been through countless blood tests, x-rays, different doctors,and chiro's in the past five years and now a rheumatologist has suggested its Fibromyalgia.. ( Does anyone else have the feeling that fibromayalgia is a name for a group of people that doctors cant find answers for, and if they cant find anything there must not be anything wrong)!  Its really getting me down, my wife doesn't understand/ seem to care what i am going through.. Its tough enough getting out of bed let alone going to work then coming home all cheerful!  She is really getting me down at the moment, i just wish i could make people understand!   If you have any success please let us know   Jack