Coping with Abandonment: Keeping my Distance

Deborah Gray is the creator of the Wing of Madness depression site Living With It Creator, Wing of Madness Deborah Gray lived with undiagnosed clinical depression, both major... Send Message Subscribe: Deborah Gray

Monday, October 29, 2007
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I described my search for a new therapist in an earlier blog posting. I didn't talk about why I had gone back into therapy, because it would have probably hurt my biological father's feelings. However, Stephen died three weeks ago. It was not a surprise; he was diagnosed with Lou Gehrig...

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I am reaching out, I lost my sister to cancer in July 2006, then 7 months after that Feb 24th 2007, I lost my son to a drug overdose, and I am hurting so bad, its like I dont want to go on anymore, its like I just want to die , and I would like to know from anyone how long goes this grieving process last its been 16 months for my son and it still, hurts so bad, can anyone tell me please write me at my email Foxybrat46@aol.com as I wont check this again

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Tolman Bannister
Saturday, March 14, 2009 at 11:50 AM

I must apologize because this is something i've never done before. I just read the article by Debra Gray and found it interesting. I'm a recently divorce, father of 3 beautifull children. Two older boys, the youngest, a girl, Sequoya who is eight years old. I currently live in Vancouver, WA, where my exwife lives also. She is planning on moving to Kent, WA, a city about 2.5 hours away.

My concern is for my kids, especially my daughter. I really don't want to move to Kent but I want to be an integral part of my kids life. Without going any further, will it cause the same problems as experieced by Debra if I am only able to see the kids on a biweekly basis. This is really tearing me up inside. I don't know how many will read this but your opinion is greatly appreciated.

Thankyou