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Thursday, November, 12, 2009
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What Not to Say to Someone Who is Depressed

Deborah Gray
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Deborah Gray is the creator of the Wing of Madness depression site
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Deborah Gray lived with undiagnosed clinical depression, both major...

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Occasionally, I wish that every single person on earth could experience one day of clinical depression. Not all at once, of course. Geez, would that bring everything to a grinding halt or what? No, I wish everyone could experience it as a rite of passage, like getting your driver's license. Actually,...
  1. You speak for so many!
    Merely Me
    Tuesday, November 04, 2008 at 08:03 PM

    This is an excellent post.  I have definitely felt this way too.  The cliches do not help.  I am guessing that people just don't know what to say or sometimes they are depressed themselves but they don't wish to be reminded.

     

    I didn't realize you had MS.  I do too.  Small world.

     

    I think most of us who have MS also suffer from depression.  How did we get to be so lucky? 

     

    Nice to meet you and I will have to read more of you!

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    re: You speak for so many!
    Deborah Gray
    Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 11:12 AM

    Hi Merely Me,

     

    Thanks for stopping by!

     

    I had depression way before MS, but I think anyone who has a chronic illness is prone to depression. Your life changes profoundly and usually not for the better.

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    re: re: You speak for so many!
    Merely Me
    Friday, November 14, 2008 at 07:34 AM

    Just wanted to say that I am a life long sufferer as well of depression.  The Multiple Sclerosis was just something interesting to add to the mix.  Smile

     

    Nice to meet you and I will definitely have to read more of you!

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  2. a grinding halt
    nishka
    Thursday, March 26, 2009 at 08:53 PM

    I really appreciate this article and your great sense of humor. I don't think that i is snotty at all, It is all so true! You really are able to shine a light on the subject for all. Thank you for submitting this writing!

    Reply
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