I tell you I have a 4 & 7 year old , they fightall the time, and run around, but with direction they learn to be have. Medication is not met for a child of that age,,, that's up to me to control their behavior. Not med's,, kids will be kids,,,,,, I think I will go home from work today and hugg my girls extra tight tonight
And I am having trouble getting past the mental image of a half-naked 4 year old girl in a pink pullup and gold earrings laying motionless on a pile of clothes and a stuffed animal....how long did she lay there before being found? Did her parents have ANY concern for her when her mother's uncle kicked in their door and demanded they take her to the hospital? It doesn't sound like it, instead mommy pushed another pill into her, and went back to sleep......so much for the mothering instinct. I want to think that people can't be like this, that they simply cannot be so indifferent to the suffering of their own flesh and blood, but then things like this happen, and I spend the rest of the day determined to hug my daughter until she pops. To listen to her every word with breathless anticipation, hearing a beautiful little girl enjoying her life to the fullest. Knowing that somewhere out there, there are other little girls who aren't treated the way they should be, just makes me furious. These parents are oblivious to how lucky they were, and worse yet, threw away their opportunity to be the most important thing on Earth, a loving parent.
Powerful drugs have their place, and I am not wont to question people who've spent significant portions of their lives in school, but I have REAL issues with drugging kids under 10 with powerful narcotics. What's worse, the mother was adjusting dosages to suit herself and her conveniences from all accounts I've heard. The father would determine the kids were 'acting up' and it would be time to drug the children. I just don't know how to respond to this. I want to scream, I want to cry, I want to help, I want to smack fools around for not realizing what lucky SOBs they are, and throwing it away. I don't know how to react first....or which is appropriate....so sad..
Sadly the untimely death of rebecca riley is a direct result of low life parents feeding off of medicaid system. On medicaid They had no worries about paying for doctors visits or expensive psychotropic medicine. It seems that the parents were chemically restraining this unfortunate child for their convenience. The department of family services...Who were already aware of this family failed rebecca riley. Too little done for too long...and not following up with this case.
I could write more. I just hope that the parents are prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law and that they lose their parental rights.
Hi Deborah,
your final analysis was pretty close to the mark when you mention neglectful parents. I have beeen following this story through another forum I am a member of, and when I read in further detail what occurred in Rebecca's final hours - it was downright abuse leading to manslaughter. Poor Rebecca tried to get her mothers attention and help, and was told to go back to bed. Her uncle found her gasing for breath, he wiped vomit from her face, and bashed on her parents bedroom door to get them to take her to emergency. Her mothers response - another pill.
I feel physically ill when I think of what she suffered, and am at a loss as to how do you educate people like that, to learn basic concepts such as caring for your child when they are sick.
God help us all....
Sonja
Certainly, I am not the only person nauseated by the death of a four-year-old <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" />Massachusetts girl due to drug overdose. The obvious question of course is why did parents allow their child to be treated with such drugs at the age of two? Because they believed she suffered from ADD- no surprise. It is only recently that Bi-polar disorders have been an accepted diagnosis in prepubescent children; but at age 2? Although I have been out of the clinical setting for many years, I very much doubt that an accurate diagnosis of this type can be made at such an early age. To give an antipsychotic, a heavy duty antihistamine, and a depressive to such a young child is almost unimaginable, especially since trials have shown marked liver damage from some of these drugs in children. In my opinion, the diagnosis-obsessed culture we live in medicates every perceived flaw. Are we so unable to cope with our children that now we have to drug them into complacency? The parents are being prosecuted. The doctor should have his license suspended. Our society is so medication crazy that excuses will be offered, doctors will come forward and offer their expert opinions. And another child is lost to the craziness of a drug happy society. And people ask me why I left clinical practice!
Dr. W. Sumner Davis
When I read this article I was in total shock. Two weeks prior to this article I was in court fighting against the mother of my children and a doctors diagnosis of my son having ADHD, Adjustment Disorder with Anxiety, and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. The diagnosis was based on complaints by the mother of my children. My greatest efforts to instruct the Doctor that my Son does not have the symptoms mom described in school or with me was ignored and I was put off as being aggressive and insensitive. Mom then met with the Doctor again without my knowing and requested medications for my son. He prescribed Strattera for ADHD and Abilify (Medication to treat schizophrenia). Both medications were not tested for children. Prior to mom attempting to have my son diagnosed she was giving him and my daughter sleeping medications to induce sleep and some un-named pill she crushed in their juice prior to going to school. The children were in a daze while in school and my son was falling asleep in class. He was very irritable and would not focus and cooperate. I complained to the Doctor who diagnosed the ADHD and other problems that his diagnosis ignored my assessment, and the schools opinion. There was no Conners reports, BASC-2, counseling, evaluations. I argued that he is not performing the process needed to diagnose such an illness. Yet I was ignored. He took the story of mom only. He simply told me that if you come to a doctor you should expect medication. I nearly felt helpless because I knew from the sleeping pills and moms deepest desire to have mood and mental medication was her attempt to control my children. Using medication to parent my children rather than using other methods to help them deal with the sadness she is responsible for bringing into their lives. She gave Ryan the medication and began working very hard to have my daughter diagnosed with the same. My son was slumped over and non-responsive as a result of taking this medication. Not being able to take it anymore I hired an attorney and fought like crazy to stop this madness. My son was ordered off the medication immediately. The court hearing is not complete. There are areas of my complaint still pending. These parents who chose to medicate when they can’t tolerate their children has to be brought down. The Doctors who recklessly prescribe these medication to children without proper testing should lose their license and be fined. Something has to be done to stop this.
First, and foremost, if these children were being abused they should have not been in the care of the parents at all. Furthermore, the doctor should have been reported this incident to Child Protective Services before any diagnosis was made, especially in a two year old. Did the doctor use these children as guinea pigs for her own self satisfaction for experimenting? It is ashamed that people who are in a position to help only uses the situation at an advantage to help satisfy their own selfish purpose. The Doctor should be held accountable for prescribing medication to a two year old without further observing her behavior and should have known abusive parents, Hmmmmmmm let me think this is a perfect escape in case anything goes wrong. The parents should also be accountable for their abuse toward that little girl God Bless her soul.
My experience with Clonodine was giving to me to help me taper off narcotics, the doctor (pain management) said it helps with calming you. NOBODY TOLD ME IT WAS ACTUALLY A BLOOD PRESSURE PILL!!! After 2 days and only 3 pills at the lowest prescribed amount, my BP went to a 32 and ended up in the hospital for 5 days to get my BP back up to alittle below normal.
I can't imagine ANY DOCTOR GIVING THIS MEDICINE FOR A CHILD, ESPECIALLY WITH THOSE TYPE OF DRUGS THAT ALSO CALM THE HEART DOWN AND DROPS THE BLOOD PRESSURE!!! THIS IS A FACT AND THE TRUTH, PLEASE ANYONE TAKING CLONODINE......PLEASE BELWARE OF THE FOLLOWING SYMPTOMS: FEELING LIKE YOUR DYING BUT ARE NOT WORRIED ABOUT IT CUZ THE CLONODINE MAKES YOU SO CALM, HEARING YOUR HEART BEAT IN YOUR EAR 1 BEAT AT A TIME, REFUSING TREATMENT KNOWING THAT YOU NEED IT, THIS WAS NOT ME!! I HAVE 2 BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN, HAPPY MARRIAGE, I NEVER WANT TO DIE!! BUT WHAT THIS CLONODINE DID TO ME, MADE ME FEEL IT WAS OKAY TOO, AND I WAS TOTALLY EXHAUSTED, ETC. PLS PEOPLE DO NOT TAKE THIS MEDICINE!!!