10 Questions to Ask Your Doctor
Don't forget to ask your doctor these vital medication questions
Teenagers are mysterious creatures. Even though we've all been teenagers, somehow that experience doesn't amount to a hill of beans when we're trying to understand our own (speaking as the stepmother to one current and two former teenage stepchildren).
Most of the time this inability to understand teenagers is simply a reason to smack your forehead with your hand and mutter something under your breath. But what if you're concerned that a teenager you know is depressed? Not just experiencing hormone-ridden mood swings, but clinical depression?
I suffered from depression throughout my teenage years. I can tell you that I was very different from my non-depressed friends, even though we were sharing the same adolescent journey. Unfortunately, in the seventies even medical professionals didn't subscribe to the idea that children could be depressed, so while my parents knew something was wrong, they had no way of finding out what it was.
The danger is that depressive behavior in an adolescent might be written off as normal teenager behavior. What make this possible is that beahviors that would signal depression in an adult are normal for teenagers. For instance, the everpresent iPods are just the most recent version of using music to ignore adults (and bratty younger siblings). While it might be considered rude and isolating in an adult, it's just par for the course in a teenager, so we don't get concerned.
So how do you tell the difference between normal behavior and depression in a teen? While normal teenage behavior might seem at first glance to be very similar to depression, these similarities are fairly superficial. It is possible to separate the two. Let's look at the behavior a non-depressed teenager might exhibit:
- Mood swings
- Mildly rebellious behavior (breaking curfew, taking car without asking, etc.)
- Listening to angst-ridden music that grownups can't possibly understand
- Dressing strangely (at least as far as adults are concerned)
- Sleeping late
- General unwillingness to let parents into his/her life
This is all normal behavior for teens. Much of it is explained by the natural process of separating from your parents and establishing your own identity. It may be frustrating, but it's not depression.
Depression is an altogether different animal. A depressed teenager might:
- Lose interest in activities that he or she previously enjoyed. Has she quit playing soccer after years of enjoying it? Did she have a good reason (new part-time job or greater focus on schoolwork) or was the explanation somehow lacking?
- Stop hanging out with friends.
- Exhibit changes in appetite or sleep patterns. Obviously, chances are pretty good that a teenager is going to need more sleep - it's purely biological. But when they are either sleeping all the time or having trouble sleeping, that's not normal. When his appetite drops off or suddenly increases beyond what's normal for a teenager, it needs to be looked at.
Most of the time this inability to understand teenagers is simply a reason to smack your forehead with your hand and mutter something under your breath. But what if you're concerned that a teenager you know is depressed? Not just experiencing hormone-ridden mood swings, but clinical depression?
I suffered from depression throughout my teenage years. I can tell you that I was very different from my non-depressed friends, even though we were sharing the same adolescent journey. Unfortunately, in the seventies even medical professionals didn't subscribe to the idea that children could be depressed, so while my parents knew something was wrong, they had no way of finding out what it was.
The danger is that depressive behavior in an adolescent might be written off as normal teenager behavior. What make this possible is that beahviors that would signal depression in an adult are normal for teenagers. For instance, the everpresent iPods are just the most recent version of using music to ignore adults (and bratty younger siblings). While it might be considered rude and isolating in an adult, it's just par for the course in a teenager, so we don't get concerned.
So how do you tell the difference between normal behavior and depression in a teen? While normal teenage behavior might seem at first glance to be very similar to depression, these similarities are fairly superficial. It is possible to separate the two. Let's look at the behavior a non-depressed teenager might exhibit:
- Mood swings
- Mildly rebellious behavior (breaking curfew, taking car without asking, etc.)
- Listening to angst-ridden music that grownups can't possibly understand
- Dressing strangely (at least as far as adults are concerned)
- Sleeping late
- General unwillingness to let parents into his/her life
This is all normal behavior for teens. Much of it is explained by the natural process of separating from your parents and establishing your own identity. It may be frustrating, but it's not depression.
Depression is an altogether different animal. A depressed teenager might:
- Lose interest in activities that he or she previously enjoyed. Has she quit playing soccer after years of enjoying it? Did she have a good reason (new part-time job or greater focus on schoolwork) or was the explanation somehow lacking?
- Stop hanging out with friends.
- Exhibit changes in appetite or sleep patterns. Obviously, chances are pretty good that a teenager is going to need more sleep - it's purely biological. But when they are either sleeping all the time or having trouble sleeping, that's not normal. When his appetite drops off or suddenly increases beyond what's normal for a teenager, it needs to be looked at.
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