i know i'm not alone, but today things have gotten so much worse. my partner of 6years who has been on anti d's but depressed for years today turned to me, after i pured my heart out to him, like he asked me too and has said he will come home some point, but doesn't know when, he needs to get h...
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in response to partner's depression
jpw2008
Monday, April 20, 2009 at 01:49 PM
hi
Your right there is a light at the end of the tunnel.BTW,I'm still looking for it too.
It sounds like he's using you as a scapegoat. You are not the cause of his problems.Each of us has to own up to our own problems.I know I don't have didly squat in the way of expertise.I've learned alot from my own and others experiences.You have a right to be angry. You are probably saying yeah right he's from mars. That may be true.I only can say what I know.
Even If he were right.Not saying he is,He still shouldn't abuse you mentally.
Truthfully,
Jon Ward
re: in response to partner's depression
wanting-my-man-back
Monday, April 20, 2009 at 07:18 PM
Thank you so much! its just nice to know that it isn't me!
tonight we made some kind of connection, i know its brief and that tomorrow he will no doubt hate me agian, but its these brief times we share just holding each other that i love so much, he is my man again during these times. I just wish they would last!
i will keep coming here for support, we've a long road ahead of us xx
re: re: in response to partner's depression
jpw2008
Tuesday, April 21, 2009 at 02:11 PM
Hi
I Hope things work out for you. I'm glad you didn't take offense to anything I said.
Have a good day,
The best any of us could ask for.
Jon
hi
Your right there is a light at the end of the tunnel.BTW,I'm still looking for it too.
It sounds like he's using you as a scapegoat. You are not the cause of his problems.Each of us has to own up to our own problems.I know I don't have didly squat in the way of expertise.I've learned alot from my own and others experiences.You have a right to be angry. You are probably saying yeah right he's from mars. That may be true.I only can say what I know.
Even If he were right.Not saying he is,He still shouldn't abuse you mentally.
Truthfully,
Jon Ward