Hi there

Yes it has been some time since you have been on the site.  I am not sure I understand....you had a pregnancy scare but you are not pregnant...and because of this one factor your boyfriend doesn't want to see you anymore?  As I see it...birth control is not just your responsibility but his as well.  If you both do not want to be parents yet...one obvious solution is to look into birth control methods.  It sounds like this situation scared him.  Are there any other reasons why is saying he wants to end the relationship?  It may take some very straightforward communication to understand what he wants from your relationship and how to handle setbacks and crises...they happen in all relationships.  But I guess my question for you is...do you really want to be with someone who is so quick to abandon you if something happens unexpectedly? 

I am sorry you are going through this.  I can only imagine that you must be feeling shocked and hurt. 

Let us know what happens okay? 

Pink motorcycle mama

8/20/11 3:42pm

Amyy, do you really want to be with someone when things get hard they run away from the problem? I know it's hard to let go of someone and you become scared and feel all alone. But it makes us grow and become a stronger person inside. You do what you think is right, I don't know the whole situation but sometimes it's best to let something go. Look at it this way, you have been taking a bath in the same tub of water, now it's cloudy and dirty and you can't see the bottom of the tub. Do you let the water out of the tub? Or do you keep it because you feel cozy and warm? Hard decision that only you can answer.