I have been in a relationship with a man for 7 years and recently we went into business together, I find now that he has changed into this ego fanatical thing that I dont even like anymore, he makes my life hell. Last night I went out and drank too much and made a complete fool of myself, today, I...
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TO ANNIE
THE ONE
Friday, July 04, 2008 at 01:39 AM -
Help Yourself First
a work in progress
Friday, July 11, 2008 at 01:24 AMYour quick note outlines so many potential disasters.
1) Relationship and business partners don't always make for good bed fellows.
2) Ego fanatical. ....you mean it's all about him?!
3) He makes your life tough or you allow him to make your life tough?
4) Drinking doesn't solve problems, it creates more problems. It's a temporary escape and when it's all said and done (getting drunk) your problems are still there, only complicated by your use of alcohol (which is a depressant in and of itself)
New Priorities:
1) get a grip on yourself, your needs and your wants
2) implement change to honor yourself and what's best for you
3) find out what you can about your disease and how to help yourself manage your disease.
4) Join a support group to help you deal with the stresses you mention....or go to your pastor or a trusted friend to discuss...drinking solves nothing.
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LIVE FREE... LOVE THYSELF... BE HAPPY...
TAKE CARE!!! GOD BLESS!!!
PS... BE HAPPY W/O USING DRUGS OR ALCOHOL
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