There are no words that will comfort you, the Grace of God and time will lessen the terrible pain in your heart. I lost my youngest son Joseph and around 2 yrs. later my only daughter was murdered and we still havent found her body. I have my 2 oldest sons, one I dont see very often and the other is in prison for probably the rest of his life.There are days I cant bear this world. I watch Josephs only daughter Madeline while her Mother works and I thank God for her, it is like looking into my sons face, has all his mannerisms. I have to believe we are here for a purpose, even when we doubt everything we thought we knew about life. I took Madeline to the cemetary to put new flowers and to tell her Daddy what she was up to. I tell her all the stories about him so she will always know where she came from and know how much he loved her, she was 1yr and 1 wk. old the day he died. At 8 yrs old she feels a terrible void in her life and I'm her strongest connection to her Dad, so maybe that's my purpose. You will be in my Prayers as will your Grandchild. The love for your child will be his voice to his baby. I remember my husbands Aunt coming up to me at a homecoming, at the time her children was in their 50's and 60's, she grabbed me and said I'm so sorry, now you too belong to that awful club. She had lost a son that was 2 at the time and her grief was as strong as if it had just happened. I believe one never lets the passing of a child go, the bond is too strong, we have to find a way to be strong for one day we will hold them in our arms again and that tells me how glorious the other side will be. *Peace*