Hi everybody
It is Tuesday and that means it is time for a new question of the week.
There are many words which describe having depression. Sometimes the word "depression" is used interchangeably with mood disorder. Then there are other more subjective synonyms such as melancholic, unhappy, or in emotional distress.
Some use a global term to incorporate things like depression, bipolar disorder, and anxiety disorders as all being under the category of mental illness.
My question for you is: Do you feel that depression is a mental illness? And do you regard suffering from depression to mean that you are mentally ill?
Mental Illness can be a loaded term and some people are not so fond of equating depression with mental illness.
A few years ago, the author of the blog, Furious Seasons, posed this question to his readers and the responses were very interesting. Some commenters were not in agreement that depression should be considered a mental illness. One reason given is that depression is "too common" to be considered a mental illness.
In contrast, The National Alliance on Mental Illness does list depression as one of many mental illnesses.
So what do you think? Are we simply playing with semantics? Do you think that it is important to categorize depression as a mental illness so that it can receive funding for research and be taken seriously? Should depression be considered a mental illness just like schizophrenia is? Is depression more aptly described as a mental disorder or even a medical illness? There are many questions about this term based on personal, societal, and clinical definitions.
Tell us what you think. We are eager to hear from you!



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To me, I'm not so sure mental and physical illnesses should be in different categories. Stress can bring on a heart attack and/or depression. Being wounded in Iraq can cause physical illness and/or depression and PTSD. Rabies can effect one physically and mentally. And the list goes on. I guess they do have to be grouped, but in some cases it is hard to separate one from the other. Depression can be caused by a chemical imbalance. Hypothyriodism can be caused by a chemical (hormone) imbalance. The brain controls much of what happens to our bodies. Schizophrenia has a genetic and a chemical component. Libido can be increased with testosterone. Is libido physical or mental? It is both.
I'm not sure what I am trying to say. I just wish that those of us with anything categorized as mental illness (depression included) would have the same access to medical care, an increase in grant money for research to match that of cancer and heart disease. And I wish there were enough hospital beds for the mentally ill. Several times when I went to the hospital during a psychotic break, the psych ward was already full because there were only 20-30 rooms allocated to mental illness. We should have equal footing. There should also be an emphasis on the need for psychiatrists in medical school. In my area, at least, it can be a long wait before you can get in to see one for an evaluation and initial visit. But there are whole wings of hospitals and office buildings full of cardiac specialists and family practice and rehab for traumatic physical illness.
And as for me, my depression was very dark and ugly. I truly suffered. For decades. It was definitely an illness to me. It brought daily activities to a halt, cost me my job and my marriage and my independence. Intense mental and emotional pain. I wanted to sleep more, I lost weight, I had no joy, I cried a lot, etc. So my vote is yes, it led to mental as well as physical illness.
Donna,
For not knowing what you're trying to say, you've said it very well!
Carl
Hello Donna, I'm Marie and I would like to say how sorry I am for all the loss in your life. My heart truly goes out to you. I have major depression and I have a very difficult time dealing with life and all that goes with it. I am under dr care and have been for 8 years now. I think I actually needed to be on meds a lot earlier in life. I tried to commit suicide when I was 15, and never have been a social butterfly. Always stood off in the corner and didn't like myself. I'm trying to get on disability because I cannot hold down a job. My focus ability is notta. I like to sleep alot, my son jokes about me sleeping my 36 hours. I have so many things I would like to do but the depression gets ahold of me and its hard to think straight. I like many others have for so long downplayed the disease (illness) I guess because I didn't want to be labeled but I have been trying to provide for a 15 year old son and myself for quite sometime now, and I need my disability to help me. I feel worthless and not as important as women with stable careers. I always wanted to be educated and successful. Guess I need to change my definition of successful, huh? I want to do what I can to get me healthier and then try and help others. I so want to help those who are worse off than I am. I am right there with you girl and if you need to vent, I'm here. Will check back in later. Keep your chin up, I am. God has a plan for us in life we just don't know what it is yet. Have a grerat day!
I'm sorry that you are suffering, Marie. So you say you may have to change your definition of a successful life? I don't think you should see yourself as less successful. I do think society's definition of success and yours (and mine) might all be different but they are all valid. If you are taking care of yourself and your son the best you can, that is success.
I am nearing 55 now. My ideas of "success" at this age are not what they were at 25. Age, illness, circumstance, fortune, blessings, they all affect our lives. But one of the biggest effects is derived from your own self-image. If you do the best you can with the tools and information and mental wherewithal you have available, I would call that being successful.
Thank you for your support and words of wisdom, I am 46, have my 15 year old son with me, and not a very supportive family. I love them but we really want to get things set differently with my finances and move away from the negativity from them. I don't think my family understands where I'm at when it comes to my depression. I forget things and am suicidal. I think my son and I are just happier on our own. I just now had my attorney file for my disability benefits and am not content at how long it takes to complete this process. I have trouble finding someone who wants to be in a relationship with THE DEPRESSION. You'ld think I wasn't even a person inside of this skin. I know its difficult to live with someone in my frame of mind but you would think out of all the men on earth I could find just one man that would really enjoy me.