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Are You a Hoarder? The Question of the Week

By Merely Me, Health Guide Tuesday, August 02, 2011
Hi everyone   Have you ever watched the show, Hoarders? It is on A&E now.  It is a fascinating show about people who suffer from extreme OCD who hoard everything from amusement park memorabilia to pet rats.  I am sure they pick the most extreme cases because it makes for TV viewing...
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8/ 2/11 10:04pm

No, I don't hoard, though I believe I should. Invariably, I am looking for something I threw out. Sometimes, bad judgment is as bad, or worse depending on how important the missing item is.

 

I might take that back. I did see the episode with all the rats in the man's house. Thousands, and their dropping everywhere, in the walls, attic, every space. It made me think of Willard, and not Ben.

 

I wondered how they could help the man stop doing something he obviously loved, mental illness or not. As you alluded to Michael Jackson, where is that line? I suppose it is in generally accepted living conditions in this country, or other place, wherever you live.

There is a town in India where rats are revered and worshiped, fed, watered, protected. I've seen it numerous times on either PBS, Discovery, or National Geographic.

 

If I have an abundance of anything it is computer parts and accessories in drawers and closets. The back of my computer is coincidentally, a rat's nest.  :)

 

I don't know that the people who are being helped on the show, do not return to their habits, once the filming and clean up crews leave. It would be good to return a year afterward and see.

8/ 4/11 9:27am

There have been update shows "one year later".  Some of the people are doing well and some have let their homes get just as bad as before.  It seems to depend on whether or not people stayed in treatment or not.  The show offers them continued treatment after filming but a lot of people turn it down.

8/ 4/11 11:43am

Thank you. I just started watching that show on A&E occasionally, whenever I was scanning channels and would see it on. It's good to know they offer post-show counseling and not surprising to hear that it doesn't always work, just like therapy for everything else.

 

I've been in a few, very few, homes where there was hoarding apparent but I was not there for that. Never personally saw a home which hoarded animals like I've seen on this show.That rat place creeped me out! Not a place I'd want to have a disabling stroke in.

 

The people do show a genuine need for what they have, and I'm glad to see someone, a family member or friend, still is trying to help them. The show does show people at the extreme, there's a lot of gray are out there, I'm sure.

 

Thanks for the information.

8/ 2/11 11:41pm

I'm not sure... I don't like mess and clutter, but I do suck at throwing things away. I get possesive about objects that are MINE. I even get upset when throwing away things like an old pair of jeans. I slept on a bed that was had springs sticking out of it and was lumpy for years because I couldn't bare to part with it (though that might also have been part of my depression and 'punishing' myself... and also thinking if I take my life that's an awful lot of money to waste in buying a new bed).

 

Still, like I said I don't like mess. My room is the tidiest in the house - although my desk does have a lot of papers on it that should probably be cleaned, even they are in 'neatish' piles and I pretty much know where everything is so it's in a sort of order.

 

I have collections of DVDs and books, etc, but that is because I like them and rewatch/reread them. And I have had big clearouts of all things including books and given away DVDs that I didn't particularly like to others who I knew did like them.

 

So I guess the answer is no, though sometimes I struggle with that part of myself. I think it becomes unhealthy when someone can no longer battle that side of themselves and a 'collection' becomes mess. If you cannot function because of your 'collection' it is hoarding and damaging.

8/ 3/11 7:53am

I think I'm more headed in the opposite direction: minimalism.  I don't like things sitting out anywhere and am quick to throw away everything I haven't used in a while.  For one thing, I hate to dust and everything that is out there is collecting dust.  The one thing I may hoard, and I'm not sure it's hoarding, is my poetry.  I have at least read through it all in the past year and separated it into 3 piles: good, rework, and discard.  And there are plenty in the discard pile, but I have yet to discard any of it.  It just seems like it must have been important at the time I wrote it and expresses a part of me...do I want to get rid of that?

 

I used to have a boyfriend who was hoarder.  I was shocked when I finally went to his apartment unannounced and had to step over piles of books and magazines that littered the floor and countertops.  It was so foreign to my way of thinking and doing things that I really couldn't understand.  He says when he reads something it becomes a part of him and he can't throw a part of him away.  I would think that once you read a book and it "became a part of you" then you wouldn't need the physical representation anymore.  But I still need all my poetry, don't I?

8/ 3/11 2:45pm

My husband was a hoarder.  He collected electronics and had piles of broken VCR's and other parts.  He would pick them up out of the trash on the street.  We almost got evicted at one point and it was very stressful.  When he passed away I had to go through and throw out all this stuff.  He had boxes of useless things like broken pens.  When he was alive I just put up with it but now I am pretty good about throwing things away.

8/ 3/11 3:37pm

hi

I know of a person who is a hoarder

I can only imagine what the person goes thru

I feel bad for the person

thanks for the article

Jon

8/ 4/11 9:24am

I am not a hoarder, quite the opposite actually.  I have a tendency to get rid of anything and everything in some vain attempt to declutter my mind by decluttering my house or something.  I tend to let housekeeping fall by the wayside when I am feeling down so when I start feeling better I want to have everything nice and neat with no clutter.  It is not necessarily a bad thing except sometimes I throw things that I shouldn't have.  I don't tend to place a sentimental value on anything.  I imagine with hoarders it is the opposite, where everything has some sort of sentimental or emotional value for them.  I have watched these shows and these people are genuinely upset when their possessions are removed.

 

However, it is interesting, when I was young I had a hard time getting rid of toys sometimes.  Especially dolls and stuffed animals.  I used to think of them like they were alive and I would feel bad for them, literally.  Like, if I would put some on the bed at night I would have to put all of them so they wouldn't "feel bad" lol.  I grew out of this eventually but I imagine it is that sort of emotional attachment to inanimate objects that can lead to that type of hoarding behavior.

 

This is an interesting topic to me cause there are a bunch of poeple in my family we affectionately call "pack rats".  Nowhere near as extreme as the tv show but hoarding behavior all the same.  My sister tends to keep things way too long because she will attach a sentimental value to everything.  She will throw things eventually though.  My aunt has more of a problem with excessive shopping/spending but then just keeps everything she buys all around her house in their plastic bags with the tags/wrapping still on because she has no place to put it, and indeed doesn't need it.  They have both had issues with depression and anxiety.

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By Merely Me, Health Guide— Last Modified: 12/17/11, First Published: 08/02/11