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Question of the Week: Faith and Healing

By Merely Me Thursday, October 15, 2009

Hello everyone!

 

Today we are going to do something a little different but exciting.  I am not going to ask you a question but rather, I am going to ask you to do the asking of questions.  And here is what we have in mind:

 

There is a special section of The Washington Post  on-line called "Faith and Healing."  The two bloggers who write on this topic are Anne Brower and Albert Scariato.  Here is more information about these two writers from The Washington Post site:

 

"Healing is a physical and spiritual matter. We ask medicine to heal our bodies, religion to heal our souls. Faith and Healing, a blog hosted by two Washington-area clergy who began their careers as physicians, will explore the connections between the two. The Rev. Dr. Anne C. Brower, is senior chaplain and director of the Healing Ministry at the Washington National Cathedral. She is a graduate of Columbia University's College of Physicians and Surgeons and was honored in 1997 by the American Association of Women Radiologists as "The Most Outstanding Woman Radiologist" in the nation. The Rev. Dr. Albert Scariato, is rector of Saint John's Episcopal Church in Georgetown. He was awarded his M.D. from Jefferson Medical College and was co-owner of a large Radiation Oncology practice in the Baltimore area."

 

What I am going to ask of you today is for you to write some questions about the topics of faith, healing, and spirituality so that I may give these questions to The Washington Post Faith and Healing bloggers to answer. 

 

I cannot tell you how the questions will be chosen but from my understanding, your question, if selected, would be answered on The Washington Post site.

 

Please also understand that you may ask a question pertaining to any particular faith or even from the viewpoint of having an absence of any faith or religion.

 

What would be an example of a question you could ask?  Something I have always wanted to know is are there any studies which show that prayer can help in the healing process?  And could meditation do the same thing?

 

So here is what I would like you to do:

 

 

Write down any questions you would like The Washington Post Faith and Healing bloggers to answer and I will pass these along!  I will then let you know which questions were selected to be answered and how to find your answers.

 

Sound good?

 

In the meantime how about a question for you.  Has your faith helped you to cope with your depression?  And if so...how?  Remember to be polite and tolerant of the fact that we all have different faiths, some folk are agnostic, and some are atheist.  We want to be welcoming of all people regardless of religion or faith.  But I think we have a great community here and I believe we can delve into such matters with civility and tolerance.

 

Thanks to all who participate in this! 

 

10/15/09 5:36pm

HI

people view faith as spiritual.

My question is does it have depth, does it change lives.

If a person has real faith it should change there whole life and make them a better person

It should make it a stronger person.

Is the definition based on Hebrew 11:1?

It is more than acknowledging God and Jesus.

I know myself I don't have enough faith most of my life I was credulous

I just accept things,I also know thats why i got stepped on

People who have faith are the strongest people I know

As for healing, Faith doesn't heal anybody on its own

If that was the case Those ones with faith would all be well

Jon

10/15/09 5:41pm

These are good questions Jon...and comments.  I will pass them along!

 

Thank you!

10/15/09 5:49pm

As for me without  it there would be no need to exist.  I have to have faith that things will get better no matter how hard it may be at times, I have to have faith that there is a silver lining to this cloud that we call life, and you know what, it is.  Sometimes my way gets rough and very hard, but that is what we call life.  I have faith that I am going to wake up tomorrow, I have faith that I will be able to take in my next breath of air to live, I have faith that my next step no matter how unstable that it may be due to MS, I still am able to take it.  I have faith to know that one day they will find something be it natural or whatever it is going to take care of this depression and MS.  Good things come to those who wait.  We have to be patient, the race is not given to the swift but to those who endure to the end.  I have read that if you have the faith of a mustard see, you will be able to move mountains, for those who believe, and I believe.  That is what has gotton me thus far.  Much love to everyone.  sherry/smomdukesKiss

10/15/09 5:54pm

So good to see you Sherry!

 

It sounds like your faith has really helped you tremendously.  Was wondering if you have any questions for the faith bloggers?  Let me know!

 

 

10/15/09 8:16pm

I seem to have lost faith and quit praying because no prayers are answered for me. I only wish for simple things. For example love and a job. I'm sure there are lots of people out there wanting the same thing. Nothing seems to progress, then you die or it's too late. Then what?

10/16/09 2:30am

I think one of the biggest strength of organized faith is in the sense of community people get.  There's comfort in being with people that have the same beliefs and feelings you have, another sort of therapy I guess.

Anonymous
suburbancwgrl
1/22/10 10:27pm

I don't know if you are still coming here and reading. If you are I want to direct you to the last 3 words of your last sentence, "it's too late".  It is only too late if you give up.  I have suffered with not having love and not being able to keep a job my whole life, and major depression from my childhood and adult mistakes I made.  I want to share with you my story.  Go to my website ggac-ministries.org and check out my book, "Before It's Too Late"... please never give up, it is never too late as long as you have faith.  Look at it like this... I would rather live my life with faith and as if there is a GOD and die to find out there isn't, rather than live my life as if there isn't and die to find out there is... how bout you?  Keep the Faith... I know it is hard but just keep thinking tomorrow is another day and things could turn around... GOD Bless you DEEPLY!!! Michelle

10/15/09 9:16pm

Faith is believing: that a letter you drop in the mail will get where it's going.

                        that an act by a loving God 2000 years ago balanced the scale.

                        that all the agony we suffer depressed doesn't affect our destinies.

                        that our energy bill will get paid.

                        that there is enough time to find a cure for mental illnesses.

                        that God is keeping score, and sees your pain.

                        that somewhere between your ears an idea worth having exists.

                        that order has more value than chaos.

                        that languages communicate what you would like someone to know.

                        that optimism brings more joy than pessimism.

                        that love matters.

                        that I am whole even though I am ill.

          How can a doctor measure pain? What measures will you use to say when a depressed person is no longer depressed?  Since Christ experienced all the weight of all the sins of all mankind, how depressed was he? Since illness is not necessarily related to sin, how can faith help? Studies have shown that prayer does help heal people, but not all the time-why?

10/15/09 10:01pm

I only believe in logic. What is put before me is real. I dont exagerate it to make it a question of faith or mythology.

 

My question is why someone would create a hypothetical reasoning called faith or religion?

 

 

Pat

12/12/09 8:22pm

This will be contraversial ...so people can criticise this comment all they like......

 

At the present time in my life I think belief in logic (or other thoughts) is another persons irrational thought...thoughts, and beliefs are all concepts built by the mind/brain and all can be changed at the drop of a hat...(or something else! Arrgh yes another thought or construct)...and that's why we can all recover from depression if we discover the method or beliefs that free us from our self generated torment! For some this will be religion and for others self discovery and releasing the past and self limiting beliefs that are unhelpful to us. Life with only logic blocks out our feelings and i BELIEVE that to recover we must acknowledge our feelings and open our minds to the learning this brings...even Jesus (who I understand to be a real person) spent time in the desert reflecting. By the way I'm an atheist but do respect that everyone has a right to their own beliefs.

 

Hypno

10/15/09 11:31pm

I wish that I had as strong a belief as Billy Graham or Joyce Myers. They can overcome anything that comes their way and teach/preach to others only good in the ways of our evil world. That is not religion, it's old fashioned strength and love; understood by all humankind.

10/16/09 12:34am

faith can help if i'm not isolating myself from everything good & punishing myself,i can draw strength if i feel worthy enough or well enough to draw towards the positive.sometimes prayer & the love of a caring church family make a world of difference.it is difficult for me to keep a positive attitude.

10/16/09 6:13am

Dear MM and all,    If faith was easy, it wouldnt be faith. Faith is a test of perseverance, trust, patience in suffering, that all will be well, that God hears every prayer [even though not always answered in the way we'd like] if we have faith in our kids [ I dont have any] but  we just have faith that they ll come through their disabilities, their mental anguish, the Drug Culture, the instant sex culture theyre bombared with in the media, Faith is believing through the odds, that our loved ones wont cheat, even though they maybe getting the chance to daily in their work place etc., its the faith that our kids will grow up to be wise and  its knowing that  our Depression / Anxiety/ Phobias all this anguish and suffering isnt in vain.    Ive thought about this alot. I think that if we had no physical health issues, no emotional health issues, we would be ptetty smug people and wouldnt have the empathy we have.

My question MM would be what percentage of Psychiatrists actually feel that they are dealing with the whole person  ie Spiritually, emotionally, when treating Depression.  Unfortunately it has been my experience that alot of Psychiatrists and therapists, dont believe in an after life and whilst not actually saying it, dismiss the spiritual aspect/dimension of the human suffering they encounter daily. Concentrating instead, just on the actual disorder in the #brain ie lack of Serotonin/Noradrenaline/Dopamine and high levels of Cortisol and they medicate the above with Chemicals to regulate the transmission of these neuro transmittors. Also Sedatives to regulate the Anxiety and stress caused by the high Cortisol levels.  CBT on the other hand goes a little further in so much as it captures and questions the thought before it can have that negative effect on the brain chemistry. Plse note Im not discounting DNA and propensity towards Depession.

KissWhat am I trying to say? Well I believe true recovery from Depression and anxiety comes from looking at our belief systems, the Ego, Our Vanity, our Pride, our desparate need to 'fit in' not wanting to be the oversensitive, tuned in , creative, caring, shy people that many of us are. Afraid to be ourselves we put on layers of pretence. This has a price in anxiety. Fear - the fear of  natural things [thats healthy] but fear of being taken advantage of, of others seeing our fear, our timidity, our open heartedness, so we spurn intimacy and what we want is what we also fear.  We live empy shallow lives and put on an act to be accepted and not to get walked on. Its a v high price. Were afraid to be ourselves coz we wont be loved if someone gets to really know us, so we have a ghosty confidence.   Its just that when Ive spoken about Spiritual growth, and being in the Public system, I can see the psychiatrist get impatient so i say , you dont believe in a higher power? a  separate need for a spiritual clean out of hate, unforgiveness etc and they sort of remain silent.  We have a fantastic Prof of Psychiatry here in Ireland, Corry. He like some of the great psychiatrists,believes the spirit, soul, forgiveness etc all have a great bearing on Mental health and relief of Depression. That it cant be treated solely with Chemicals to sort out Brain Chemistry. He includes Schizophenia in that too.

Again - I am incapable of writing a short post. sorry this is so long.Sealed

10/16/09 9:06am

I definitely have some questions of my own. 

 

1.  I have heard some people say that they loathe the statement that "God only gives you what you can handle."  I have to say that I am not fond of this statement myself as there are people who feel that they may not be able to "handle" what is currently going on in their life.  And then they feel unworthy of God.  But for others this statement brings comfort.  Can you tell us from your perspective, is such a statement a part of faith?

 

2.  I have heard that prayer can help people who have a physical or mental illness.  My question is, "What is prayer exactly?"  Can one meditate and gain the same healing from this?

 

3.  How do you know if you are on the right spiritual path?  Does God give you signs?  Or is there constant doubt? 

 

4.  What role does suffering play in faith and spirituality?  Suffering seems a central part of any religion.  As physical flesh and blood beings are we expected to suffer?

 

5.  Some people say that if you have a connection with God that you will be happy.  Does a belief in God automatically ensure happiness? 

 

I have tons more but I am hoping others will keep adding their thoughts and questions!

 

 

10/16/09 11:38am

Faith,

Hi Merely, glad to see you also.  I have no questions for the bloggers on Faith; I must say I am good on that.  For me and I speak for me alone, Faith is the substance of things hoped for.  I hope that one day there will be peace in our land, no more depression, MS, or at least a cure for these illnesses, and other diseases that plague our land, the evidence of things not seen, that one day we will truly love one another no matter where we come from, a world that cares, something that you cannot see only feel.    I have not lost faith in the human race, there are still good people out there.  Now they may be few and far between, but they are out there.  I look at my dad, he is 77 years old and he is truly country.  When I am riding in the car with him, he waves to everyone he passes by, and hopes, or at is ages he just takes for granted that they are going to wave back.  Now that is Faith, or just crazy.  I asked him one day, “Daddy, how do you know if those people speak back to you? He looked at me and said, child how do you know if they don’t?

Faith?

Sherry/smomdukesKiss

 

10/16/09 4:05pm

I have a question.  Do you see any difference in the health of people who belong to organized religions/churches compared to those who say they are spiritual but don't belong to a particular church?  I'm just wondering how important it is to be a member of a church community vs. "doing your own thing," so to speak.

 

I read an article recently that claimed there are more people who say they are spiritual and don't belong to any church than those who say they do belong to a church.  I'm wondering if it's a sign that more people are becoming disillusioned with organized religion and, if so, why.

Anonymous
Anon
10/19/09 9:25pm

Judy,

 

You have asked an EXCELLENT question regarding health and being part of an organized community (church). 

 

I was raised in a Christian household.  My father came from a Methodist background; my mother from an Assembly of God background.  They researched theologies and found a compromise with the Church of Nazarene where my foundations were built.  Due to circumstances which were more musicial than spiritual we, as a family, began attending and later joined a Southern Baptist church where my brother's foundation was built.

 

Now, I am a member of no church and do not regularly attend services any unless it is to "work."  I fall under the category of spiritual, but not religious (as in actively participating in religious ceremony).  In my heart-of-hearts, my faith contradicts my strict religious upbringing.  I cannot believe that the God I believe in would NOT have reached out to the many peoples of the world in different ways which spoke to their heart-of-hearts.  Therefore I am living outside the doctrine of my upbringing to adhere to my FAITH.

 

I have no question for the bloggers, but just wanted to share this with you Judy.  Thanks for your question.

10/19/09 9:48pm

Thank you for your response.  My background as far as religion goes was similar to yours, only I was raised Catholic.  I was even in a convent.  There just came a point where I couldn't swallow everything any more because it didn't speak to me.  Women were second class citizens, good enough to do all the work that needed doing, but not good enough to be priests or even deacons.  Plus, it seemed to be all about money, all of the time.  One-third of my church was supporting the rest, yet we were the ones that were called on all the time for more.  I can't say I've missed it, but I have to say that I feel more spiritual now than I ever did when I was practicing my religion.

 

I appreciate your thoughts!

10/16/09 5:19pm

I will ask a question that has troubled me for decades, has made me leave organized religion, has made me doubt God's intelligence.

 

Why does does God allow children to suffer?

Why doe God let children be born with painful afflictions? Why does he allow children to suffer, to be tortured, and horribly abused? Why does he not protect those who have no defense, other than his love?

 

I once was told: but they don't know what normal is, to them suffering is normal. If I could say a bad word here, I would say it about such stupidity.

 

Why does he fail them? Everything has a purpose, I was taught, He has a reason. I say, there is no reason. If he is all powerful, surely he can find a way to make his point other than through the pain and suffering of these defenseless little ones.

 

Not the type of question you are looking for, I suppose, but it is the question I would ask God himself. It is just not necessary.

10/18/09 6:35am

Dear Merely Me, and all,

Prayer doesnt have to be organised, its a simple conversation with God, who I believe, created us. I speak to God all the time, in the mornings esp with the awful withdrawals, I say 'god, im trembling, help me get out of this bed' I speak to God in my frail flawed human way from my human thinking perspective as my human Earth mind cant comprehend the vastness/greatness of his love so I have to think of God as a he, a person who loves us and who died for us on the Cross.      

Paul - I get where youre coming from. In the bigger picture of Eternity, this life is only a speck, a wait at a Train Station.  God gave us Freewill. To abuse, to love,  to kill, to be kind.  This is a trial, a waiting place, not an eternity.

Jesus on earth never refused to heal anyone - he even cried alongside dreadful suffering when he encountered it, and healed it.    Child abuse and illness is not the work of God.  I believe if we didnt have dreadful Evil we wouldnt understand the polarity of Goodness.  Abuse isnt an alien phenomena to me.  I get very angry at all the physical and sexual clerical/institutional abuse that happened in my Country [Ireland] and how the Clergy [on a v high level] spent great sums of money to Lawyers to cover it up, to try and silence the abused. this is a great Evil. I believe God is just as hurt and wounded over this as I am.  I believe he will take care of that - 'revenge is  mine sath the Lord'   

Finally, are people who belong to a Religious community and who pray and believe in the afterlife more likely to recover from depression?

Finally nothing to do with question in hand - MM i think you used this prayer before, it really does help me, its used in addiction programmes aa,NA etc

God, Grant me the Serentiy,   To Accept the things I cannot change.

Courage to change the things I can change.

And the Wisdom   to Know the difference.

12/12/09 8:34pm

"Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent. Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent. Is he both able, and willing? Then whence cometh evil? Is he neither able, nor willing? Then why call him God?" -Epicurus

 

Thought I'd share this famous quote with you all.

 

Hypno

4/26/10 11:16am

Dear Paul,

4/26/10 11:16am

Dear Paul,

4/26/10 11:29am

Dear Paul, I can identify completely with what you say.  I have been a Christian for over thirty years but am now questioning God's Goodness/Powerfulness.  I now don't see how he can have both these attributes when I read of the suffering of little children who have been tortured and killed by the very people who should have been providing them with love and care.  I can understand, to a certain extent, the reason behind the suffering of an adult who may have something to learn and God uses this way way of reaching them: but a baby, or a small child?  Why doesn't God intervene to prevent such abuse? I cannot bear the thought of such an innocent bearing pain and wondering what he/she has done wrong to deserve such treatment.   On top of the anguish I feel for these innocents I feel guilt for doubting my Lord.

Anonymous
Anonymous
10/19/09 7:51am

The question of how one has faith has always perplexed me. It seems you either do, or you don't. As a child, I was raised in a Christian family, and we attended a Christian (Baptist) church. Of course I was therefore raised on the doctrine that the only way to be "saved" and find ones way back to God, was through faith in Jesus as the Christ. There were many beliefs and doctrines I was told I should believe. I tried, but many things I knew I doubted and still do.

I have read that even the most faithful of people, regardless of their religious beliefs, have doubts. So I suppose my question is whether this doubt is "a sin"?

With respect to any healing affect, I suppose one who has faith will accept that no matter what outcome befalls one, its God's will. While this does not cure you it would seem to make one more accepting of no cure. In fact, it raises the question of whether we should even pray for good fortune, for isn't it all God's will in the end. Therefore, do you see faith as a "healing" influence, or rather an acceptance? Do we not have it both ways? If we are healed it is faith. If not, it was God's will and for the best.

 

10/22/11 11:02am

certainly faith births hope and hope breeds expectation. The expectation of a miracle on this earth as well as the miracle of eternal life nurtures a peace that passes all understanding.

 

my question: how does peace of mind and spirit result in harmony of one's pysche and physical condition?

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