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jpw2008
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Challenging Myself
anne
Thursday, October 29, 2009 at 10:13 PMI wanted to take Tai Chi and this means going to a different neighborhood and taking a class with people I never met before. Well I am doing it and I love it; but I am still challenged by the idea of communicating with these new people.
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Merely Me
Saturday, October 31, 2009 at 02:19 PMOh wow! Tai chi is great...I took a class in this some time ago. I tend to like classes such as this because I suspect that you won't have to do much communicating. The emphasis will be on movement and learning this new philosophy.
I am a very shy introvert so this kind of thing is hard for me too. Try to take the pressure off of yourself in that...you do whatever you feel comfortable with. Start off with a "hi" or "hello" and work your way up from there. It is okay to be shy!
Tell us how things are going with this class...I am excited for you.
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challenges
Ricovring
Thursday, October 29, 2009 at 10:37 PMHi MM,
Welcome back from your conference.
How I've challenged my self lately: since I am almost retirement age, returning to college as a full as a full time student brings many challenges everyday. Besides school though I have found my biggest challenge is speaking publicly every Thursday night at Toastmasters. My club is well represented with many professionals in education, marketing, and medical and legal fields. That makes standing up to say something worth
hearing a pretty good challenge. It's been my pleasure to accept the challenge and delve into many research topics I would never have thought important otherwise. The saying goes, you get out of it what you put into it, so my interest is to put everything into it, because I still feel very needy. Giving a good speech is not just challenging for
receiving an applause, if you do a good job that is expected. The biggest reward is knowing you produced something that not only earned the respect of your peers, but
the respect of yourself.
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Ricovring
Saturday, October 31, 2009 at 09:54 PMHi MM,
I don't give a talk each week, but there other roles to participate in that allow you to speak before the group, such as grammarian, timer, ah-er counter, and Table Topics
(impromptu 1-2min.) on other weeks when you are not one giving a talk. The atmosphere is as non-threatening as possible. If you want to improve, I recommend finding a club that meets at a time and location just right for you.
Thanks for commenting.
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LyraStorm
Friday, October 30, 2009 at 06:23 AMHi, welcome back. I look forward to hearing about your experience at the conference. I’ve done a few things of late to try to challenge myself including applying for a drama course next year – I don’t have the interview for a few weeks yet and then it will be about another two weeks before I hear if I got in but since I had a complete breakdown over three years ago now I hadn’t believed I would ever have the guts to chase my dream of acting again. Now I’m giving myself a chance. It’s scary as hell but I really want something to fruition from it. I also met up with a guy and he helped me face my fear of intimacy. Though he is just a friend it helps me not be so afraid of interacting with others (worrying about where it might lead and what my limitations might be), and also with acting since I no longer freeze or stiffen when someone enters my personal space. Also I’m going to LA next week. Though I’ve done a bit of travelling in my life already it can still be nerve-racking, and going to a sci-fi convention especially can be a little intimidating because they are all actually quite friendly and interactive and I’m such a loner. Still I’m sure it’ll be good and I’ll get a lot out of it – even if I do end up trying to make myself as invisible as possible and just soaking up the atmosphere and watching everyone else instead of completely joining in (I’ll try to push myself but no promises, lol).re: Untitled Comment
Merely Me
Saturday, October 31, 2009 at 02:24 PMThese are HUGE advances my dear Lyra...good for you!
I absolutely think you should pursue your acting dream...I am rooting for you. And I want to hear all about this trip to LA...this is very exciting. I am thinking you are going to have such a fun time. It can be a bit scary to leave home but...I think once you are there...you are going to love it.
Thanks Lyra for sharing your progress here with us!
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fifi
Friday, October 30, 2009 at 11:44 AMI drove up tiny country roads, for fourty minutes, I dont normally go far after my brakes failed and my car lost control on a bend and I nearly had a head on smash with a lorry. Glad I did it though as there were some stunning autumn colours an views.
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Hi Merely Me
lonelyone
Saturday, October 31, 2009 at 05:03 PMI hope the converence will help with my lonelyness anxiety. I am so alone all the time especially since my sister is out of town. I don't have anyone to talk to. It's the weekend and I am so anxious because I am alone and it's 5:00pm and getting ready to get dark. I am so scared. I just got out of the mental health hospital with no help from them. What can I do about my loneliness on the weekend?
No I'm not looking forward to Halloween. Not answering the door.
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Merely Me
Saturday, October 31, 2009 at 05:21 PMHey there
Are you afraid of Halloween or just being alone right now? When will your sister return? It is going to be okay. Do you have any other supports to call...friends or family? Can you go to a public place...maybe a coffee shop...just to be around people? Or turn on the radio or TV...sometimes I do that just to hear other voices when I am alone.
I hope this feeling passes and you make it through the night. I will be here sporadically this weekend so I will check back and see how you are doing.
Please hang in there okay?
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lonelyone
Saturday, October 31, 2009 at 11:51 PMNo I'm not afraid it's Halloween. I'm afraid of being alone because of being alone. I get anxious and feel anxiety when being alone. My sister won't be home till Friday and my brother is with her. I did go out to eat with my nephew which did help allot but then again tomorrow I will be alone again. Nothing on TV on the weekend and that doesn't help anyway. I need to be with someone and talking to them that helps. No other family members to talk with or being in a public place helps.
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Merely Me
Sunday, November 01, 2009 at 07:30 AMHello
Well hey...you made it through Saturday so this is good. I have confidence that you are going to make it and maybe even have some periods of time when you are not scared and anxious.
I am here all this weekend so I will check back here on you. If it helps to write more...do that and the time will pass.
You are not alone.
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Merely Me
Sunday, November 01, 2009 at 10:06 AMHello again
How long ago did you start your Prozac? It usually takes an antidepressant more than several weeks to kick in. I am hoping that yes...eventually this combo will help. Does your doctor know how anxious you are feeling? Is there anything that helps aside from medication?
Do you have any thoughts on where the anxiety and fear come from? Or do you think this is mostly biological?
You are going to make it through this day. Feel free to come back and write more if this helps you. I will be here on and off all day.
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lonelyone
Sunday, November 01, 2009 at 01:54 PMI just started Prozac 20mg while I was in the hospital on Tuesday. But then he dc'd the Pristiq I had been on. I then went through withdrawal's, you'd think he'd know better. Then he re added the Pristiq 50 mg and still I was having withdrawal symptoms. I asked to be discharged because I didn't like the way he was handling things. I added the Pristiq twice a day like before and the Prozac twice a day. I'll let my mental Health Dr know what I did when I see him on the 10Th. I know self medicating is something I shouldn't do but I had to do something. Yes the Dr knew how anxious I was and didn't do anything about it. I'm taking klonopin 1 mg 3 times a day and seroquel twice a day and at night.
I think the anxiety is biological.
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I sang in the back yard
I only had one person look at me
I normal wouldn't do that
I thought it was great that I did that
Jon