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34 f from melb vic oz

im 34 living with depression the last 20 yrs have anxiety and social...

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Sunday, August 09, 2009
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im 34 fem from melb vic oz living with dpression sinse i was 15. also have anxiety and social phobia.

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    rose martin
    Sunday, August 09, 2009 at 04:14 PM

    Hi Pandora, Im living in Ireland so hello from across the World.  Im not long on this site, Im a good deal older but have had Depression since childhood [didnt know it then] also panic disorder and Social phobia. I act my way through situations but try and avoid them. Because of this ive lost alot of friends. Guess people just get fed up with my excuses. I am TRYING. Depression would be the greatest problem at the moment but Ive anxiety as well. Are you getting any help for yourSocial phobia?  I find that I do things in tiny steps, I meet a friend for a coffee and look around the shops, Im very assertive in certain situations, ive given talks over the years, appeard on tv and spoke on radio when I worked with homeless people, but when it comes to parties or dating, Im very phobic and have to take sedatives. Still I am trying !! Hope you find help and encouragement on this site.

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    pandora
    Sunday, August 09, 2009 at 11:12 PM

    hi rose thanks 4 ur comment im new here too i cope with my depression with the help of medication my anxiety thru yoga and meditation and my social phobia thru avoidence like u until now i am going 2 join a social phobia support group im hoping i can go and b able 2 interact with people because its a problem that has been holding me back 4 a long time in work study and relationships

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    pandora
    Sunday, August 09, 2009 at 11:13 PM

    hi rose thanks 4 ur comment im new here too i cope with my depression with the help of medication my anxiety thru yoga and meditation and my social phobia thru avoidence like u until now i am going 2 join a social phobia support group im hoping i can go and b able 2 interact with people because its a problem that has been holding me back 4 a long time in work study and relationships

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    rose martin
    Monday, August 10, 2009 at 08:28 AM

    Thats Great Pandora !  Its like Feel the Fear and Do  it Anyway ! you go through the motions, Ive found breathing is extremely helpful for anxiety symptoms like Vertigo and flushing and perspiring etc., the thing is Pandora, when I DO manage to get out, I feel SO good when I c ome back !! Stick with the Group and best of luck. contact me anytime.

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    pandora
    Monday, August 10, 2009 at 09:43 AM

    ye i know its going 2 b hard but i have 2 do it! breathing is very good and getting out even beta if u stay home alone u just think about it more and it gets worse. i wish u all the best with ur stuggles 2:)

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    rose martin
    Monday, August 10, 2009 at 12:10 PM

    Thanks Pandora,  We have a v good Group here in Dublin but the waiting list is very long. Seemingly, alot of people suffer greatly with it but we just dont know coz they live silent lives of desparation. Nobody would know from me either, its part of the Depression and Anxiety and phobia thing.  I think its about Self Esteem and also Avoidance, its so EASY to avoid and yet, this behaviour just feeds the phobia and the Depression and we become isolated and more lonely and Depressed and its a cycle. If you can break the cycle, even by going to the Self Help Group and realise that youre not alone, thats  a great great step forward and its no looking back from there !!BUT take it from me... you gotta work at it and be prepared to get uncomfortable feelings, but thats what they are, feelings ! Best of luck

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    pandora
    Tuesday, August 11, 2009 at 03:56 AM

    hi ann how r u hope u r doing well yes there r 2 centres in my area im going 2 try both programs hope itll help i know itll make me realise that im not alone how sad is it that so many people go thru this 2:( its a vicious circle and im determined 2 break it only because im so tired of feeling this way!

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    Merely Me
    Sunday, August 09, 2009 at 10:18 PM

    Hi there!

     

    I am glad you found our site.  There are tons of people here who share the same issues....so make yourself at home.  Please write more to tell us what is currently going on in your life. 

     

    We want to hear your story!

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