There is a lot of discussion on this site about depression itself and medical and alternative coping methods. However, I have not seen anything about the bad ways to cope. For example, excessive eating or spending, even drug use. Of course these things are bad but they are a "band aid" for depression.
When I am in a really bad depression, I don't eat, sleep, go out of the house or do much of anything. However, when I am in a relatively functional place, I tend to overeat and overspend to cope with the bad feelings. Of course, it doesn't really help but it does make you feel better momentarily. I have been coping with my depression (and dysthymia) a lot better lately without having to resort to those methods. I lost 30 lbs. and have really curbed my spending.
However, sometimes it is too little too late. Even though I am getting better slowly, I am currently on medication for high blood pressure due to my horrible diet. I am still working on that and it is getting better every day. Stress just compounds the problem though. Also, my years of overspending are finally coming back to haunt me now. I am now mired in credit card debt that will take me years to pay off. This is in fact what most recently sent me into a downward spiral. I am dealing with it now but it is just another burden on my back.
My point is, I am dealing with all of this due to years of NOT dealing with the underlying cause: depression and anxiety. Let this be a warning to anyone who is not currently seeking the help they should. Not properly dealing with your depression can give rise to a lot of other problems. As if depression isn't hard enough!
What kind of negative "coping mechanisms" do you use or have used? Have you been able to overcome this?
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