how can I get motivated?

Why is it that some days/weeks I can't even get the house cleaned? My husband has been really great but I know he's tired of a cluttered/ dirty house. I can't ask him to help because he puts in a 12 hour day. How can I get myself going to do just normal housework?

There are days when I just want to lie in bed all day. I know that's not good. I try to go outside & work w/ the cattle but w/ it being cold/snowy it makes it bad. I know I need to see a doctor or professional but I just can't even get geared up to do that. Talking to people isn't a help because most poopoo me or want to change the subject. Any ideas or help?

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