Hello, I had been with my boyfriend 14th months before we had broke up. We tried to go out Friday and he wasn't himself and I asked what was wrong and he said nothing. Then saturday I tried to talk to him and he said everything was fine. I then tried to talk to him on monday and he got all mad and said he needed time.
I got tired of not knowing what was going on and I went over to his house to talk. He just said he was so depressed and he needed a break. He needed to sort stuff out in his head. Then I asked if he knew I was still the one and he said he didn't know he didn't know anything because he was so depressed and he couldn't deal with it with me.
I asked him if we could go to counseling together and he said no there was nothing for us to work out. If it would of been something between us that I did or something with my personality then we could, but this wasn't about me it was about him being depressed.
I asked him if he was saying he would never want to date me again, and he said don't read more into it than what I said, I said I am depressed, I am depressed. I said then I will have to see other people and cut you out of my life and he said that was okay he understand. He acted like he didn't care about us at all or my feelings.
He wouldn't let me help, and he wont go talk to anyone else. We were planning on getting married this summer and he had said sure that I was the one for him, and that I was stuck with him for the rest of my life. And that he was sure of and that would never change.
He just acted so cold to me like he didn't even care about me or that he would lose me. I told him this had hurt me and he didn't even say sorry. He just said I know you have been telling everyone. He had always said we would work things together. I am lost.
What do I do I am so confused I love him to death. He said we had to break up because last time he said took him months to get over his depression, and he didn't know how long it would be and he couldn't be around me.