My husband has been suffering from depression for many, many years now. I thought that I would be able to deal with his depression but it's getting harder and harder to live with. He is not interested in doing anything. He sleeps about on the average 16 hours a day and then will watch tv. He usually doesn't want to go anywhere unless I saw let's go do this or let's go do that and he will tag along sometimes but when he gets there he will just sit there and he doesn't interact with anybody. He used to help me out with cleaning the house and keeping up with laundry since he isn't working and I am but now he doesn't even do that. This has gotten worse within the last 2 years now. Last year he was hospitalized for the depression and got some help and when he got out of the hospital he was doing much better but it didn't last for long. He will go 3-4 days without showering. He doesn't take his depression medicine most of the time because he says it causes him to have less of a sex drive but at this point I'm not interested in having sex with him because of how he is. I just don't know what to do at this point.