I think my 19 year old son may be depressed. He locks himself in his room allday and only comes out to go to the bathroom and eat. He also works 3 hours a day. He never socializes with any friends and has cut ties with his siblings. He says he has no friends at work. We are tring to encourage him to seek better employment as he is useing my car,he wont be able to maintain a car on his salary. He aknowledges this agrees with us but does nothing. He can't even leave his room long enough to get a bank account. I am frustruated. He can't even hold a conversation with any one, he just grunts and runs to his room. I know getting him help would be pointless because he would not talk, and probably not even go. Could I make him? What are MY choices in this? What can I do to help him? Please help?