Hello, Italianmom.  I'm sorry your daughter is going through this and I know how worried you must feel - my older son was 12 when we first got him help.  It's good that you are recognizing something is not right and are not afraid to look for help.  This link will take you to a sharepost by one of our experts, Merely Me, which talks about how to find help when you don't have insurance or money and I believe you might find some useful information here.  Your daughter is lucky to have you, a mother who is concerned and cares about helping her feel better.  There are a lot of parents who would rather pretend there isn't a problem and blow it off.  I'm sure you've tried talking to her and she probably doesn't want you to worry and maybe she doesn't even know what's wrong.  If nothing else, perhaps a counselor at school could be of assistance or could refer you to someone for more help.  I hope this helps and if you need any more information or support, you can always come back to this site.  I sincerely hope you can find the help for her that you need.