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Friday, September 23, 2011 Mrs. T asks

Q: Loving depressed husband left me 3 days ago. I am in so much pain!

He left me a note saying he loves me with all of his heart, but if he stays he will wind up killing himself. We have a great relationship and I love him so much. I have been e-mailing him with ideas such as he needs to change his meds, get therapy, we will get counseling, etc. He has not replied. His son e-mailed me from another state saying his dad was there and safe and that his dad would call me in a few days after he thinks about things. I am so afraid he will never come back! Please help me, what are your thoughts? This is the most pain I have ever been in.
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Merely Me, Health Guide
9/30/11 7:24pm

I am so sorry this has happened.

 

Was there any precursors to such behavior?  Did something happen before he left?

 

I cannot imagine the pain and stress that this is causing you.  I am wondering if you might seek some counseling at this point for yourself in order to get through this.

 

I am afraid we cannot know what made your husband do this.  I hope he gets better and that you can have communication with him again to know what is going on.

 

Please let us know what happens. 

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By Mrs. T— Last Modified: 09/30/11, First Published: 09/23/11