Hi

She wont see her DR, but keeps saying she will book appt, she sleeps all the time and is tired all the time,she is late for work constantly and faces losing her job. She is pushing me away more, every week I have less communication with her. Right now literally 2minute phone conversation per week, and physically seeing each other once for 2 to 3 hrs every 2 weeks. In the first 2 months I thought it was just me, so I asked her if she was unhappy and wanted to end our relationship, she literally went into hysterics grabbing me saying no dont go. Since  have seen a councilor and he beleives from my description she is suffering depression from trauma from memories coming to her because the trial has finally started for her divorce. Her divorce is from a man who mentally abused her beyond beleif(eg sometimes he would put a sheet over her head during sex cause he didnt want to look at her). It is going on 4 months now and each week it is worse. The last 3 years we have been together have been amazing. She is such a beautiful person with the greatest smile and personality, very loving. The greatest mother I have ever encountered. And I am not perfect but I treat her always as my friend,partner and lover. I know everything with us, our feelings,plans everything is real. And do not want to lose her to this, and I do not want her for her sake and the girls to get worse........PLEASE someone what can I do?