I 'm feeling trapped at the moment. When I go out I feel like I dont want to go back home again. My marriage has changed so much and I think my husband expects me to have the same figure I had when we met. This is putting so much pressure on me that I just feel unattractive to him. I know i'm not obese and that my bmi is 26. I just feel that if it wasn't my weight it would be something else.
He says I also spend too much money. I dont go out with friends or have any hobbies away from the home that I do. occasionally I will buy clothes that I buy in sales or in charity shop. He likes me to look nice and I like fashion. H e gets really angry about money when I ask him about a holiday. We have savings, but he says that is for when he retires. I feel that we could spend some now and some later. but he gets really angry and I'm frightened to upset him. I just dont know what to do.