My wife and I has been together for 6 years now. I am 27 and she is 25. We have been married 2 years. She had my daughter and every since then she says that she is suffering from postpone deppresion. It got to the point where she brought up things that I have done to her over 3 years ago and just sit and get depressed about it. The we got married and then it got worst, I thought it would have gotten better, She use to tell me the reason she is depressed is because we wasnt married. We got married and then she got worst, she started getting migranes and having head aches. And every medicine that they proscribed for her she said it wasnt helping, so the prescriptions got harder and harder. And i would notice that everytime she would get depressed, we would get into it, she would say she has a headache. Pop some pills and go to bed. Everytime i told her something she didnt want to hear, she would say she is sick or has a headache and go to bed. She would blame me for everything, and she still does. And I get tired of being blamed for everything. We had another baby 7 weeks ago. My wife had a life changing experience. And she almost died and had to had emergency DNC surgery and blood transfusion. She says that she still hurts, did i mention that she takes Ambien also. She is sleep when i see her, but she swears she is not sleeping, Im not sure if she wants more sleep. But when we are at home she sites there like its the last place on earth she wants to be. My daughter asks me whats wrong with mom. And i dont have no exuse on what to tell her,, she is 3 years old and is very smart. She has gotten so bad to where the other night she was screaming she wants to kill herself. And she blames it all on me. she says the reason she wants to kill herself is becuase i dont love her. And now she wants to leave me. Im trying to be the bigger person, because i know the person she can be. I am complete lost of words on what to do. My family loves her and her family, and they say she needs help, but none is dedicated in helping her get help. And im on my last straws, i only can deal with so much humiliation from her. She calls her friends and talk about what i do to her like im just bad to her. And everyone see how good I am to her, and everyone see's that but her. But when they tell her how good I am to her. She tels them why are you taken his side. Its not taking sides. But if she can do what she wants she is fine, but when I complain about something she gets mad and depressed. Maybe I need some help on how to talk to deprresed people. How do you talk to depressed people. We lived 4 hours away from her parents and she says she wish she was around her parents, we moved to her hometown with her parents. She wanted our own house, i got us a house, she wanted a car, i got her a car, she wanted some furniture, i got furniture. But she still is depressed, about something, but i dont know. And i feel like a fool, because im still here putting up with this. Im really consered for my kids, i dont want this to rub off on my kids. What should i do?