My husband drinks everyday and everyday he says such mean things to me that I hide in my room so I don't have to here it. But he comes in and just keeps going on and on. I have very low self-esteem, don't sleep much, don't eat much. I want out and want to start a new life far away from here. My kids are all grown so it is just me. I am so depressed, I cry everyday I need to get free of this situation as soon as possible. I am afraid of I stay here any longer, I wll totally fall apart and go insane or something. My family live far away from where I am, and there's not much they can do from there. If there is anyone who can help me please let me know me as soon as possible.Can someone help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Q: I am 47 in abusive relationship and I need help getting out of here.
Answers (2)
7/ 1/11 5:45pm
Hi there
Are you being abused physically? Are you fearful of your husband? It does appear from what you say...there is great emotional abuse.
You know...this is the oddest thing. I was just reading an article in one of my old magazines about domestic abuse...they had numbers to call and for some reason I tore out the page because I felt I would need to share these resources today.
So...yes....there is help!
The National Domestic Abuse Hotline: 1800-799-7233. You can call anytime and they will link you with shelters or protection in your area.
Women's Law.org. They will assist you with any legal questions as well as advice on how to leave an abusive situation.
Amy's Courage Fund: Gives emergency financial assistance to women wishing to leave an abusive relationship.
Help for Abused and Battered Women
I have been in this situation myself. I wrote a post on it. How and When to Leave an Emotionally Abusive Relationship.
Please call someone to get some help. You don't need to suffer like this. But you will need support. Do you have any friends or family who can help?
Let us know if you need any more resources. We are listening.
7/ 1/11 6:06pm
Hello there, Sounds like you are in a very tough situation. The best thing to do is ask for assitance, so you are in the right place. Will your family help you get to them? like with the cost of flying or moving? Merely Me gave you some wonderful phone numbers and sites, utilize those and keep in touch, Hang in there, Barb.
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