I'm getting ready to start taking Pristiq. I'm getting conflicting info on it. Some info says next to no sex side effects but I hear people talking about it killing their sex drive! I really want to have some kind of sex drive back. It would be really nice to actually want to have sex again without force myself to be in the mood. Can't they even come up with something that would at least help counter-act that part of the drugs we all have to take??? No offense but men have choices to help them in certain ways...what about the women??