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Saturday, August 15, 2009 LIL_DREW asks

Q: how can i stop argueing with my girlfriend

we always argue over the smallest stuff and i am alwaysthe one to blow up

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8/15/09 12:01pm

Hi, Lil Drew.  It's not fun to argue all the time.  There could be a number of reasons why this happens.  Are either or both of you depressed?  Sometimes small arguments are just a symptom of some bigger issue, like control.  It could be that you are chronically angry about something that has nothing to do with the other person, or you ARE angry with the other person but can't or don't want to talk about it.  If you can't figure out what it's about, maybe you should consider seeing a couples therapist.  Sometimes that's the quickest way to uncover what the anger is really about.  Maybe both of you don't communicate well about how you feel.  A therapist could help you do this.

 

Don't know if this was helpful, but maybe it'll get you thinking about it, anyway.  Good luck and write again if you feel like it.

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By LIL_DREW— Last Modified: 11/03/10, First Published: 08/15/09