Hello lila, Sorry for the delay getting back to you.   One thing that seems to work for some people is to go into relationships with people in as open and honest a way as possible. Get a date (however you do this...) and then tell them in that first date sometime, that you have trouble staying with someone for a long time. Tell them you like to be with people but you have trouble sticking with them. You might be suprised how many people will go, "Yeah me too! Well thats a relief." Many people out there are just like you and only enjoy the first couple months of a relationship. It wont feel like a let down for either person if both people know from the outset that the relationship is just a short term agreement of sorts.