Dear All;   I apolgise first about my English command, it is my third language. I   I have been married for 14 years, two years ago, my wife started to behave a bit strange, shouting, blaming me, etc..  Things got worse when she knew that our coming fourth baby will be disabled!! Since then, she starts shouting on me infront of the kids, challenging me on every single word regardless who is sitting next to us, causing me embarrassment      She stands infront of me, describing me with the worse words a whore can say,  asking God to punish me, and, and, and!!!   She says that she wasted 14 years of her life by marrying me, she regret every single moment, and she is in this house for the kids only and I ma nothing in her life and worth nothing!!    I try to give her  paper, trying to wake her up from her illousanions, that if I am bad, then please list three things that makes you ask for dvourse and fighting with me every single day: I do not drink, gamble, or party!! ..To be honest, I am getting sick now by writing this message.. Her mother came, and asked her, list me three things I have done that made you demanding divorce and not willing to live with me? As usual, NOTHING.. she lives in a 900 square meter house, three maids, two drivers, traveled the world, lived in hotel suites,  business and first class..  True, a few might say money is not everything, I agree, but my total life is between work (next building)/ Home or in the gym!! Almost, everyday before she changes, I used to ask her to join me for lunch or dinner wherever I am .. When I tell her go to a doctor, you might need some pills or you might be diagnosed with depression, she just starts laughing and says that I ma th e person who need to go and check my self!!   It is a sad story, everyone was jealous about our living style and how close we are .. One day,  she started biching all day, desorbing me with all kind of shit in front of the kids, despite asking her not to do this infront of them, but she just continued screaming on my and the kids crying,  I swear ,  I was suppose to get a nice smiley good morning words, but instead, this is what I get in my new life!! , by then  I  reached a stage where I didn't have any more patience, thus, slapped her and pulled her hair to shut up..   I do not know what to do, I am 40 years, thanks God, managed to have a very successful business and lifestyle, I play with the kids all the time , but she does her best to give me a bad time.. We do not sleep in the same room since two years ago, she doesn't want to turn the TV off before 3am!! While I try to sleep my midnight to work next morning, loooong list....   Just wanted to say something, though I think what I have written so far makes no sense to anyone as going into circles,, again, its my third language.