i know a man thats a veteran and we have had a few 2-3 hour long conversations and he told me his life story. everything in his life has been taken from him, but his wife whose 45th b-day was today. she has altimers and is in really bad shape, she know longer has any recolection of anything. i didnt know this and went to pick him up to go see her and he started crying and said "i no longer have a wife". we talked for awhile and he basically said once she dies im going to go join her. he told me he carved his name in to a bridge when she had first went to the nurseing home over 8yrs ago and i fear for him, im only 18 and have little knowledge and understanding of what hes been through. i have done everything i know to do, now i need some help on what else i could do to help him.

  Thank you for any advice you can offer.