My daughter is been having problems since my divorce with my ex-wife, since the age of 15. she is a compulsive spender and she is taking me down as she was spending more money than I can make. She was admitted to a Hospital in Dallas because she tried to over dose on prescription pills. There at the hospital, they have group therapy and it is helping her since she took the druggs to take her life. She has been in this hospital for only one week. She is angry with me and wants me to put 50k in her bank account or she said she will never speak with me again.

My question is what do I say to her to make her feel ok. i have agreed to all her demands, even though I do not have the money. How long will this take before she realizes that she is black mailing me in something that she knows I cannot meet.

  Please help me in what do I say to her. We are in two different parts of the country, so she calles to at night and insists that I give her money or she will disown me.