Hi there
It sounds like he is giving you some mixed messages. He plans a future with you and then wants to break up. Tells you there will be no affection but then says he loves you. It sounds like he can't make up his mind.
Do you think he has cold feet and is afraid of a commitment? Is there a possibility he had found someone new when you went away? Anything is possible. We don't know your boyfriend but it sounds like he is not being honest with you. I would not feel guilty or that this is your fault. He is responsible for his own behavior. I would proceed with caution if I were you.
I hope things work out for the best.
Let us know what happens.
Hi, there. I'm sorry this has happened. Without knowing you or your boyfriend, it's really hard to say what's going on. I'm sure you haven't done anything "wrong," but it might be that he's having - for whatever reason - second thoughts about the relationship. I would suggest that you not put your life on hold while waiting to see what happens - at least for very long. Sooner or later, you will know what's going on. He may not even know what's going on right now. I hope he's getting help for his depression, at least.
I hope things work out for the best and that you'll take care of yourself. Thanks for your question, wish I could have been of more help.
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