Chad,

I sort of asked a similar question not too long ago -- I'm going through something like this with my depressed spouse, and as are many others. Yep, this is pretty "normal" for someone with depression. It's not so much that her feelings changed, I think it's just the chemical imbalance that makes her this way. It's not your fault and it's not hers; try to be patient and understand that she's sick. Encourage her to seek her to seek help -- if she "recovers," she'll remember how understanding you were and thank you for it.

Sorry... Let me start again...

I can not get over how familiar the stories are.

This is the same as what i am going through... and i take comfort in the fact that it is the depression talking. i have had family members go through depression and it all reads the same... it is so hard and frustrating to see the one you love turn in a heart beat, from being loving and caring to cold and distant, WITH NO REASON WHAT SO EVER!.

Its as if a veil was just pulled over their eyes over night.

So i have been asking the same question in my head over and over... Is it me? or is it the Depression "talking"

with so many people going through the same thing i am postive that the depression is the cause of all the stress and strain...

I am sure that if we all just give our support and "roll with the punches" that it will work out in the end... of cause every case of depression is unique and what will work for one might not work for the other BUT the genral approach of giving support and being there should all be worthwhile in the end... i wish you all luck and hope that you all regain what you had in the begining.