My story is complicated. My husband and I have known each other for 10 years. He is a UK citizen, and I am American. We met online and talked for 3 YEARS before ever meeting in person. After we did, we were inseperable. I made the first leap. We got married and moved to the UK, where we lived for about 4 years together. Times were sometimes tough, he went through some sort of mental breakdown in which he was angry at everyone for his failures and feelings. I supported him and stuck by him even though his outbursts frightened me. It wasnt always bad, and when things calmed down, my visa expired, and we decided to move to the US as we had talked about in the past. We decided the best thing was to send me home so as not to get in trouble with UK immigration. We have been working on my husbands immigration for over 2 years - it has been more difficult than it needed to be as we tried to do some of the paperwork ourselves. Yesterday, after getting to the LAST steps of his immigration process, and 2 years living apart, he told me that he didn't think he could move to the US. I asked him what that meant, if he was breaking up with me... etc. He didn't seem to know. He just said he cares for me but he wouldn't call it love anymore. He said he can only remember the bad things of when we lived together in England, and he thought it'd just be the same in America. That hurt. It wasnt US that was the problem in England. We lived in a crappy town with nothing but betting shops and pubs/taverns. The surroundings weren't ideal. I'm paralyzed with fear, hurt, anger, and confusion. I realize that he has had some issues with possible depression, and his situation is not the best - he is staying with his parents while waiting to move to the US. He has had issues with a narcissist mother, and blames a lot of his failures on her. It's a recurring theme in his breakdowns. I don't know if what just happened is for real, and he really doesnt love me and we're going to give up... Or is it the circumstances taking control and scaring him away? I'm so scared and alone that I just can't breathe.