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Friday, May 21, 2010 Ggzmama asks

Q: My boyfriend of 4 months all of a sudden stopped calling me. Not into me anymore or depression?

Things were really good with us (so i thought). We got along really good. I really thought he cared. He even talked about wanting to claim my daughter as his own. In fact, the last conversation i had with him he was at work and he was talking about my daughter and telling me that he missed me. We have different work schedules so we were only able to see eachother once a week. He's even made comments that he wished we could see eachother more.  I know he's been unhappy with the job he has and wants to be making money like he used to and own his own house again (he lost his own business and lost his house from a divorce). Anyway, his cell phone he had broke so i didnt hear from him for a day. That next night i get an email from him telling me it broke and that he would be by my house that next night. Til this day i have not heard from him whatsoever. This has been like 3 weeks now. I have no way of finding out if hes ok other than email (and he hasnt responded to an email i already sent him). He had recently moved in with a roommate but i didnt get a chance to ever see where he was living (just know of the cross streets). My question is, do you think he truly wants nothing to do with me or is he going through a depression?

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Merely Me, Health Guide
5/22/10 10:36am

Hi there

 

There are far too many possibilities here to contemplate.  I am a bit confused...so...he comes to see you but you don't know where he lives?  And you cannot reach him by phone?  If he has just moved...he may be busy with that.  Or he could be ill or...he just may be ending things with you.  How well do you really know him?

 

You haven't really given any evidence that he is depressed.  I think it is more of...something circumstantial which has made it hard for him to see you or...after three weeks one could conclude that he has broken up with you.  It would be reasonable to want to know what has happened to him...but if there is no way of doing that then you may have to just accept that this is the end of the relationship.

 

Let us know what happens.

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By Ggzmama— Last Modified: 12/25/10, First Published: 05/21/10