My boyfriend and i are talking again, he's verbalizing everything he feels now which is good. We talk atleast once a day now which is great. It's just that I wanna know more on how I can encourage him to fight his boredom (since he's really not doing anything right now, he says he still doesn't feel like doing anything yet).
Also he tells me that he feels like he has reached his breaking point, like he feels like giving up already. (Iv'e tried sending him talking to him about this website but he says he's just not into self help stuffs.) He says his sick of being depressed, what I wanna know is how will I be able to encourage him to do something (without sounding as if im brainwashing him or something).
Also I wanna help improve his mood more and more..
(I think he's definitely improved alot because were talking again now, because we really came to that point where I thought he would never talk to me again.) Good thing I kept hanging on and I kept intouch with him through letters it seems to have worked since were talking again.
He doesn't say much when we talk but I understand the important thing for me is that were intouch again.He doesn't say I love you yet again but he always say take care and we'll talk again soon.(I know he still loves me coz he's talking to me, while he isn't talking to his sisters and mum. The only persons he talks to is me, his dad and his cpn.)
I hope anyone can help me with this. thanks
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Sometimes we should believe even when things seems like its hopeless..I think were too busy worrying that we forget to believe that God is with us, we don't let Him help us. We tackle things on our own. God is bigger than our problems therefore He will help us find the solution if only we believe in Him. (Everything has a reason, we may not know it at the moment but I'm sure God wants the best for us.)I'd like to share these quotes with everyone.
hi judy thanks for replying.
im not really putting alot of things on his head right now.(im not really expecting him to get out of this fast.all i do is to let him know that im always here for him and that's it) we just talk about the stuff that he likes discussing so i guess im not really annoying him. yeah i know. we talked about it and i told him that its really all up to him to do all the work if he wants to get well. he is talking to his psychiatrist and he has a community psychiatric nurse who checks on him by phone and visits him at home on a regular basis.
He acknowledges the fact that he has to do all the work he told me that hes just not yet ready to do it at the moment.(but i think he'll get to that phase)
thanks..i really appreciate the suggestions.