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Wednesday, May 23, 2012 Shaikh asks

Q: Hello,I’ve been married more than 12 years old having a Girl & a boy living together, since 2010, she is treating me like an idiot person

Hello,

 

I’ve been married more than 12 years old having a Girl & a boy living together, since 2010, she is treating me like an idiot person, keep calling me with bad words, and also she feels like insecure with me. I know my financial conditions is not good enough to handle house expenses but treating like this never solve problem, she never listens me & my words or if I want do something. we are staying with mother-in-law house but on rent, yes ! I pay rent to stay in that house. Even she keeps screaming in the house for each & everything also with our kids, but, I never say a word to reply to her because it cause / create more problem, therefore I keep quite at that time and listen her whatever she says. She even hits me with anything when she in angry mood. if anything happen in the house while I am in Duty at office, she calls me, to come down right way and solve the problem, otherwise you know what happen here, so aware. I have very strong heart still unable to handle this lady.

Can you please help out, what I am supposed to do............? I am not able to get a Nice income job from anywhere I tried a lot & lot my current salary is just 12K.

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5/23/12 4:32pm

Hi, Shaikh.  It sounds like you are taking a lot of emotional and physical abuse.  If you live in the U.S., you can probably get some help through your county in terms of counseling or referrals.  If your wife would be willing to go to couples therapy with you, that could help.  Otherwise, I don't see what else you can do but find a way to leave this situation.  Is she abusive to your children, as well?  If so, you need to find a way to keep them safe, as well.  Perhaps your wife is not well, either physically or mentally or both.

 

I wish I had some magic solution for you, but I don't.  I hope you can find some help so you don't have to live like this any longer.  Let us know if there is something we can do to help.  I'm sure there are plenty of others who have been in your situation.

 

Take care and thanks for your question.  Please write again any time.

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By Shaikh— Last Modified: 05/23/12, First Published: 05/23/12